they are always saying men cant appreciate the scarifices made by women. but the bottom line is men have made greater sacrifices than women in all fields like freedom fight, science and so on. men cant get pregnant and for that reason they have to put up with the womens'claim inspite of having made greater sacrifices. if you giv a woman a chance to be a man i think she wud probly be happy to do so. what do you think
2006-09-07
02:48:18
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and talking abt contributions to the society all they can say is abt Marie Curie. nothing else. few years ago the president of harvard got thrown out for saying the truth that women cant make it big even if they had a level playing field. its be cos of their brain structure. they are created different. and they have a hard time digesting the fact that they are inferior. they just wont agree.
2006-09-07
03:01:55 ·
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not to mention the mental trauma guys have to go thru to be ""deserving"" of the girl that they wanna date or marry or what ever.
2006-09-07
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Well I agree and I don't . I have had 4 children and the sacrifices I have made personally, for my children and for men have been huge. That is not to say that men don't make huge sacrifices for women. It really does come down to the individual. Have you been a freedom fighter? What scientific field have you made sacrifices for? Though, still, do you practice common courtesies towards women, like sacrificing your time to open doors for them, or things like like that? It's all give and take. I don't think either gender necessarily gives more than the other, just in different ways.
2006-09-07 03:02:41
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answered by feathereafter 4
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It depends what you mean.
When a girl gets pregnant and the parents aren't together, it is more common for the girl to sacrifice her career development than the guy to look after the children.
This decreases their future earnings and is one of the reasons why more women than men live in poverty (in the UK 70% of those in poverty are women). You could say this shows a very big sacrifice.
I am not sure what you mean by a big sacrifice in science? Women until recently were discriminated in fields like science and the army so they did not have the chance to contribue equally. However many women did make valuble contributions to science like Marie Curie. Also many women have made valuble contributions to freedom fighting on the front line, as spies and behind the scenes.
Personally I would stay a woman even if offered the chance to have a sex change.
The author of this question sounds like he has just got his heart broken. If he has i hope he goes out with his mates and has some fun. Then i think he will remember soon why he really likes women.
2006-09-07 02:54:57
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answered by Bebe 4
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I think you need to sit back and have a coca cola and a smile and STFU.
Both sides of the gender line have MADE HUGH sacrifies to the world.Neither can claim they are better nor should they want to be that way.Equal means just that Equal , I do not care if a Female is my boss or a male.But I do care that the person who is my boss KNOWNS their job and can be fair whe ndealing with work relatated issues.
That does not mean Males are better then females it means WHOEVER is best SHOULD be the boss.
I remember being told this line while growing up ...For every successful male there is a equally successive female standing behind him ....I think it should be stated like this ...for Every Successful male/ female there is an equally successive female/male standing BY them.
If you believe that 1 person is Dominate over the whole FAMILY the nyou best rethink your family.
Men and Woman Both make the choice of what house the ywill buy and live in.Thye both have to agree to raise the family to their needs.
They both have to agree on a vehilce to drive and own.
I agree with the statement ... Father and Mother MUST be willing to sacrifice for their chilfren , most Parents do this daily.The reward is seeing your children succeed and become better for your sacrifices.
SO as you can see it takes 2 Parents willing to sacrifice things to make the world a better place and to make their lives more forfilling.To say Males have done more is silly when while Males in our past HAD the spotlight , females have always been by those same males side to give moral support.So therefor BOTH should share in the sacrifice made by one and another.
For that is truely how I view what has made this world a better place for us to live in.
2006-09-07 02:59:25
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answered by Glenn T 3
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I am a mother of three. The biggest sacrifices are putting the baby first. Waking up every hour on the hour. . . worrying about every little thing. Not sleeping a wink because you are afraid sids will take that baby. Men do make lots of sacrifice, It is just different sacrifice. It is not a competition. However, at the end of the day a man can walk away from fatherhood right after conception. Women, are usually stuck with the decisions. Unless you have a great man like I do.
2006-09-07 02:54:08
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answered by Anonymous
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no i don't agree getting pregnant is a great gift!...not a sacrifice,though it can be painful & tormenting & (u would know nothing about that) it is rewarding as well!... the way it feels inside when the baby moves around & kicks,it is a great thing!...i am sorry you will never have such a feeling ...i am assuming your a male with a question like this!...i can say i do not want to ba a man even though being a woman is harder than being a man,yes i said it,it's harder we have to clean up after you & take care of the kids do the laundry & the cooking and the shopping!...so you go to work & take care of the lawn ,so freakin what!
2006-09-07 02:54:50
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answered by CRYSTAL S 6
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think of it as a balance beam, woman on one side and men on the other. this world we live in has 2 genders, and we can't live without either or. if one thing is lost then the other won't work. women may not have made 'sacrifices' nessasarily but they do have a huge part in the world. without women having babies and going through all that pain and discomfort, there wouldn't be anymore humans in this world. no matter how much men fite for freedom, peace, money, it wouldn't matter because there'd be no one to use/enjoy it. so it all has to be equal. if u give a women a chance to be a man, not every woman would want to, because they like to be girly and you know. and you're right, women's brains are built differently, and they like to feel loved and cared for, thats why their boyfriends or husbands have to listen to them or else they will feel insecure. i mean how hard is it to just listen to her? of course don't let her overdo it.
so yes i do agree woman make huge sacrifices but so do men, so its all equal. we are one, not two, we make up the world, we have to work together to continue it.
2006-09-07 12:58:33
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answered by greenT 3
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Yes......you try carrying a rapidly growing parasite in your stomach for 9 months. Then go through hours of pain getting it to come out. Then deal with months and months of exercise to even remotely get back to the shape your body was in before. For some women that's impossible. Then try having to wake up every 2 hours for the next 3 months having to feed it. Then get fired from the job because they didn't like you taking maternity leave. Then repeat that SEVERAL times. Need any more?
and you talk about science and freedom fighting? puuuhhhlease
2006-09-07 02:56:10
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answered by BlueChimera 3
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not exactly, but girls do make a lot of sacrifices like getting pregnant and all that. it is also not true that men are fighting for freedom and science etc, it's because the society is biased towards the males, therefore making women a less likely candidate for those kinds of stuff.
2006-09-07 02:51:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I think everyone is missing the bottom-line to this question. IMO it was put together wrong. However, I must say Men and Women have both equally made sacrifices period.
2006-09-07 02:55:56
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answered by omvg1 5
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You will never ever make a greater sacrifice than when a woman is giving birth/carrying a child...You will never understand because you will never experience this, the pain, the labour, the love, the protection, what we go without and through for our children is indescribable, but us woman do deserve alot more recognition, love to see men fat and stumpy carrying a 4kg baby throwing there guts up everyday....You couldnt even compare it, so save yourself the embarrassment and delete your question.
2006-09-07 02:52:15
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answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3
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