I have been talking to a guy online and we set up a date for today. I haven't heard back from him since my last email 2 days ago. He was online last night but didn't email me back. I sent him a message and am still waiting to hear back. I don't like to go out to meet someone without confirming. It is only a few hours till our meeting. Should I go out anyway since it isn't a big deal as it is a regular hangout place for me so if he isn't there, it wouldn't look weird or should I make other plans for myself since he hasn't had the consideration to answer back. Or is he just the type that doens't confirm at the last minute?
2006-09-07 02:40:36 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not so sure I would show. I think the fact that he didn't confirm is a bit rude.
If you show without getting the confirmation and he is there it may give him the impression you are needy. If you don't show and he does he can always contact you and you can let him know why you weren't there. This sets boundaries and he will know you are to be respected or he can move on.
(JMHO)
Blessings )O(
2006-09-07 02:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I'd show up. Like you say it's a regular for you and won't seem out of place if he's not there. You still have an out. If he is there you could say, in a matter- of- fact sort of way, "gee i wasn't sure you'd be here. I left a message and didn't hear from you." Something like that. Non accusatory and no big deal. (Don't let on that it might be to you.) Then see what he says.
If he isn't the type to confirm at the last minute then maybe he should start being that type. You could tell him that at a later time, if there is going to be one. At any rate, the date was set. For 2 days you didn't hear squat. And last night?? Nada. That's rude.
My guess he won't show. If so, you are the wiser for it.
2006-09-07 10:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go, since you made an appointment. Although the computer may have shown him as online, those things are not always accurate and sometimes show people as online when they've signed off, in my experience. Good luck.
2006-09-07 15:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dont go, for one or two reasons. He's got a lot to do, the rope, duck tape, coloform, condoms, sharpen the knife, more bullets.......or the wife whats to take him shopping with her. Sorry for the brutally honest opinion but then you asked and will do whatever.
2006-09-07 10:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. If this thing has started on such a confusing note, its a waste of time to think it'll get any better.
2006-09-07 09:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made plans so confirmation is irrelevant! Get going!
2006-09-07 09:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go but be safe about it. Have a friend there who can get you of the situation if it starts to get weird.
2006-09-07 09:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go...you shouldn't be meeting with someone you don't know well anyway! Especially someone who already is rude!!
2006-09-07 09:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't waste my time on that weasel. He obviously got wet feet.
2006-09-07 09:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-07 09:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋