hey everyone...i caught my b/f in the bathroom this morning while he was getting ready for work jerking off, and it is annoying the h*ll out of me! we haven't had sex in almost 3 weeks, and i think that he would rather do it with his hand than me. i am young, attractive, sexy and real good to him, and i also have a REALLY high sex drive. i want it atleast 10 times a day. :) im going crazy knowing that every morning hes in there with his hand and lotion whacking off instead of with me. what should i do? girls, do any of u have this problem with your b/f's? guys, what do u think his problem is??
2006-09-07 02:38:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time you catch him go in drop your knickers and offer to "help" him out. If he declines then ask WTF is up!
2006-09-07 02:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy but, I understand where you are comming from, believe me. I am in the same similar situation. We used to go at it all the time and now, I am lucky to get her to give it up at least once a month. She is never interested in it at all anymore. Then when I try to take matters in my own hands, she laughs at me !! WHAT THE H*LL ??
Talking dont do any good, the only answer I get is, " Well, you will survive. " I know it wont kill me but damn, I have wnats cause its like I am human and all !! Its been like this for 3 years so its getting a little out of hand !!
Sorry I cant help you with an answer but I can sympathize with you as a guy to a young, attarctive, sexy, and very horny woman !! Some guys have the same problem too and I guess the only thing any of us can do is either live with it and hope it gets better or just do the other and find a partner on the side but, I know that is not what most people want to hear. I havent done that yet but believe me, the thought is seriously crossing my mind. Sorry everyone who hates that idea but I understand how this girls feels right now !!
If ya ever need someone to talk too, look me up, I will listen and I can difinately sympathize with you !!
2006-09-07 03:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by upcowboy27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear this. I don't have this problem with my boyfriend and if I did I would be wondering the same thing you are. Something is definitely wrong with this picture. If you havn't had sex in 3 weeks and he's jerking off then there is a problem. Have you asked him why he hasn't made love to you in 3 weeks? Also have you asked him why he has been jerking off as well? If not then you really need to ask him asap. What's the use of him even being your boyfriend if he can't satsify you as well as love you. We women have to have our d*ck too!!!! You say you have a high sex drive and i'm wondering if you are making him do it to you too many times in one day? Some men can't take too much sex in one day. They have to rest their things, otherwise they won't be able to perform as well as they want to. He probably can't keep up with you. I would put an end to all of this and just talk to him and get a straight and honest answer from him as well. You deserve to know what's going on. I hope you get some answers real soon. Take care!!!
2006-09-07 10:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish my g/f had your drive!!!
She did when we first got together but not as much anymore. I'm guessing you guys have been together for a while. Maybe it's time to spice things up a little. I'd try to keep my mind clear of any of the bad thoughts. I know that's tough, but it's not fair to either one of you to "assume" the worse. He may simply be bored in the bedroom and needing some excitement. Obviously, this is just a stab in the dark at what might be his problem. I know the first thought is... He's cheating... But try to keep those thoughts out till you can put some truth to them.
The perv side of me won;t let me end this without saying this.... Why aren't you and I together? :) Ok... sorry had to get that out there... Hopefully things will get better for you.
2006-09-07 02:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by drifet_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not allow him to make it to the bathroom. get him before he gets up, while he's still asleep and start giving him a BJ, then when he's all excited do your thing, move on top and go to town. Maybe he's bored with the same old sex...try something new and different with him. The bad side of the whole thing is that he might have a girlfriend.
2006-09-07 02:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone with the same problem. He would rather jerk off than have sex with his girlfriend. She asked her boyfriend, and he said he was bored, I think he might have discovered something about his sexuality that you may not be able to fulfill. The fact that the desire to have sex is still there because he's jerking off. You may not be what he needs right now...he could be struggling with something deeper. Ask, he'll probably lie, but ask anyway.
2006-09-07 02:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry the truth does hurt but THIS GUY IS INTO ANTOHER WOMAN!!
How long is this been going on? In the morning he jer.. off in the bathroom and in the evening does he come home to you with a limp dic..??
Get ready and take matters into your own hands. Get rid of this guy!! He is nooo good for you.
2006-09-07 02:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He might be thinking of someone else (I know you don't want to hear that, but you asked)
2) He might be thinking of you, but picturing you in a different position
3) Next time, sit in front of him, don't say a word, lie down and do to yourself what he is doing to himself if your drive is that high... maybe a little experimentation might be exciting for the 2 of you.
If none of that works - he's gay and you need to dump him - there are a millions of guys that would love to have a woman like yourself..
2006-09-07 02:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's got something on the side and some guilt issues (sorry for saying that), or maybe he cant keep up to your sex drive, so he isn't trying to and he's just relieving himself instead? maybe he feels underappreciated and thinks you just want him for sex or you just expect him to preform at the drop of a hat, Maybe he's just feeling to pressured.
2006-09-07 02:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell, no pun intended. He may have a fantasy that he is afraid to try with you. Or he may be mad at you. Talk to him about it. Also, you can try to join him and play into the fantasy as it is happening. Good luck.
2006-09-08 06:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think the best way to reslove this is to sit down and talk to him. You need to work out what he is thinking and what is causing his actions. Good luck!
2006-09-07 02:44:34 · answer #11 · answered by Woe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋