when you show a guy that you love him is it bad?
and if the guy does not want to know weither somebody is diying for him what will you do. or what do you advise me to do?
2006-09-07 02:32:57 · 24 answers · asked by Adoga A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
why do you want to be with a guy who doesn't care about you? Have more respect for yourself
2006-09-07 02:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by rachael 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its harsh when you love someone and they don't love you in return. But you have to remember that you can't make somebody love you, no matter how hard you try, plus you will come across as desperate and needy. The only option you have is to move on forget him. Showing someone you love them is not a bad thing. It only becomes bad when they don't love you in return but you keep pestering them anyway.
Move on, or else you will be chasing something that is never going to happen.
2006-09-07 11:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly love I would advise you to buy a dictionary. There is nothing much you can do with regard to unrequited love, except get over it. Sounds harsh I know, but you have two choices in life, you can let it eat your heart and soul away or you can go and find someone else and get on with your life. Good luck!
2006-09-07 17:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Raymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this man is showing no interest in u hun.. forget him and find someone that will! Men like 2 think that women will do most tha chasing and that its ok for them 2 treat them like dirt! It sounds like this man has no respect for u therefore will only end up hurting u! Go out 2night wiv ur friends and hit tha clubs/pubs.. meet some new people and u will end up bumping in2 another man~hopefully one that isnt a pig like tha one ur talkin about now! Best of luck hunny xx
2006-09-07 09:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by charlie_baby1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste one more second of my time. There are 5 billion (or so) people on this planet and half of them are men. A couple billion of those men are available for dating, and a good number of those available men are dying to meet someone who'll show them they care about them and are willing to show they care in return.
Keep your eye out for THOSE guys. Throw the other ones back into the dating pool. They're not worth your energy.
2006-09-07 09:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with biiiiaaach ... she got this one right in myeyes.Forgot about someone who does not know you exsist , you are worth way more then that.
Look for a guy who DOES know you esxist and wants ot make you the focus of his desires and love.That what you seek so why waste time spinning your wheels on this fool?
Drop his ash on the crub and look for a guy who wants to be with you for you.
2006-09-07 10:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who doesn't give you the time of day doesn't deserve your time. Kick him to the curb hun, you're well shot of the idiot. You're bound to meet a lovely guy who will treat you so well and dedicate so much time to making you feel special, that you'll wonder what you ever saw in that other waste of space
2006-09-07 11:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push yourself on him and leave it alone for a while act like it doesn't matter to you and do things with friends and keep yourself busy don't focus on him and If he cares for you he will come around if not then it wasn't meant to be. I know when you care for someone its hard to ignore but just distant your self for a while date and he may realize he might lose you.
2006-09-07 09:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you will let him go. He needs to be with someone who makes him feel the way he makes you feel. He won't ever feel that if he is with you. You don't want to be responsible for his unhappiness do you? You will go on to find someone you love just as much as you love him if you just let him go & get out there & look for someone who feels the same way about you.
2006-09-10 17:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by stumpymosha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must move on, it's not possible to really love someone that you are not in a relationship with, I think you are infatuated, don't worry you'll get over it, please don't lose your dignity by chasing him. Good luck.
2006-09-07 17:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋