when i have aborted the pregnancy with my own hard earn money the guy is now begging me for us to come back, should i accept him back or i should just let him go.
2006-09-07 02:31:16 · 30 answers · asked by edgar t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You murdered your baby, you should be ashamed.
2006-09-07 02:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a little confused with your question are you saying when you were planing on having an abortion the father of the child would not give you the money to abort the child so you used your own money to do so. and now he is being you for you both to come back? "the guy is now begging me for us to come back" Do you mean you and the child ? does he know you had an abortion?
If that is the case I think the guy is stupid for wanting a murderer in his life. It doesnt matter what stage in pregancy you are in it is murder. If you didnt want a child you should have been using protection or kept your damn legs closed. People with the mentality of a child should not have sex.
"If you and your baby wernt good enough for him then" To people who agree with this quote from another persons answer think about it this way from the way she worded her question he WOULD'T giver her the money to do it so chances are he did NOT want her to do it. and by aborting her child she is saying the child wasnt good enough for her.
2006-09-07 09:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't abort your unwanted baby there's lots of people like myself who are not able to have kids or are trying and aren't having luck so I would say that this is a gift. from God. though it's unplanned and unwanted Please Don't kill your baby and punish it for something it had No control over.
I would say NO Get rid of him move on he obviously didn't want a baby or that commitment to being a dad and in a committed relationship. That says it all that he won't be there for you . so why take him back . yeah he maybe someone you enjoy but over all he's left you fallen out of love but since he has no where to go and thinks if he stays with you things will be normal.
So my advice is Keep the baby put it up for adoption. and kick the man out of your life you'll find a better man.
plus sometimes when you have an abortion it can cause you to have problems in the future if you try to have a child . and can scare you for life.
where are you from? I'm actually interested in adopting a baby. i was adopted from another country and thank my lucky stars and God for having my mom and dad for giving me up for adoption then ending a great life.
so from someone who's wishing for a miracles
2006-09-07 09:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by d_a_truckergal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He got you pregnant and you ALLOWED yourself to become pregnant. Think of all the trouble that could have been prevented had you counted up the cost of having unprotected sex with this guy. Damn! You wouldnt have wasted your hard earned money on an abortion had you thought about this before hand. Bummer!
2006-09-07 09:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention how old you are?
You both was pregnant not just you it should have been both of you deciding.
I understand that it was your body holding the child but the baby was part of him too.
If you are not ready for children then use precaution, if that don't work then just don't have sex.
You dumped him cause you killed another human, part of him I might add.
He is still willing to be with you because of it & you have to ask, should i take him back.
The real ? should be.
Should he take you back concidering you are a shelfish person & find easy ways out of a mess you made together?
2006-09-07 09:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is a hard decision. Did he take part in the decision making or was it all up to you? You would be stupid to take him back. No matter how much he claims to love you...there was a decision made to end a life between the two of you and it will always hang over your heads. He should at least pay half of the cost as it takes two irresponsible people to make a baby they are not able to care for or do not want the responsibility of.
2006-09-07 09:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first of all i dont blame the guy who refuses too give you money for what we call a senless murder of a inocennt child. we dont care whos money it was. too take a innocent childs life who, will never be able too be held in your arms who wil, never be able too smile laugh and see the light of day, who wil never wear diapers, or see its first birthdayy, or even, get too seit up in a high chairr, too see its first day of grade schol, the laughter is gone away from the world of that first day of schol, too crying at the bus stop on the first day of scholl, too not being able too enjoy nothing at christmas time tearing into its first presents the prety shiny paper being torn openn, too maybe a beaitiful litle kittenn with big fluffy ears siting in a basket under a tre with the lighs shining on tree, to riding its fiorst bike, or getting older runing playing football, or going to the park too run with friends, too learning how too drive a first car the laughter of christmas is gone ruuning inthe park picking out a dog or cat toohold, all gone thanks too you, and i would not take the guy back begging too run back too you after destroying a precious life, nope i would take the highwayy, your disguiusting fot taking a human life murdeerr. i hope you never have another chil you spread your legs and took on the reponsiblity and killed a inocent life.
2006-09-07 09:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not on for abortion, so I would not give money to a girlfriend for an abortion because it is murder. If he feels this way, them you should be with him but if he just thought that it wasn't his problem than leave him. Now enough desciption on the issue for your question.
2006-09-07 09:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem so immature. You need some serious help. Forget the guy, grow up before you get involved in another relationship. Get or stay on some birth control and don't make this kind of mistake again.
2006-09-07 09:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I am against abortions and I think the reason he did not give you the money is cause he is too but did not want to hurt you by saying it .Dont get back with him cause who knows you might get pregnant again and hurt his feelings even more
2006-09-07 09:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all it was both of you that got you pregnant not just the guy got you pregnant. second you would have to put in your spiel why he did not give you money for an abortion.
2006-09-07 09:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋