I still love my ex but the more I see him the less I like him. I want to spend time with him to learn to get over him. Do you think this is healthy and will work?
2006-09-07 02:25:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it wud never be a god thing go forward never back
2006-09-07 02:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and No. Obviously he is your ex for a reason. And spending time with will remind you of why you left him. So that would help. But the downside is that you STILL love him!! So when you spend time with him you are reminded of the reasons why. You then begin to question yourself. "He did this that really upset me BUT then he did this and that's why I love him" You will never be able to get over him if you keep doing this to yourself. It is not healthy because you are putting yourself on an emotional roller-coaster. Letting go is hard but sometimes it's a must. Your going to have to be Strong and move on. Next time you get with someone take what you've learned in the past relationship and you'll know what you will tolerate and what you won't.
2006-09-07 09:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda looks that ways but if you feel like you still love him after a month or 2, then you might need to rethink your stragedy.
easiest way is to reduce contact (dont do cold turkey cos feeling will flood back), but just gradually - hang with other guys, see other people is far more better. how will you get over someone if you still see them.
2006-09-07 10:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wont work because the more you see him the less you like him. just get another guy who you would love to be with.
2006-09-07 09:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is different but I think it wud work since it does make sense.But how does he feel?Does he know what you thinking of doing?Is he okay with it or what?Dont mislead him though.Im sure you wud'nt like somebody to do that to you.
2006-09-07 09:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont do that just date someone else because if your able to be friends after breaking up you dont want to lead him on..
2006-09-07 09:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is a totally screwed up plan!
You will hurt more!
Distance yourself from him until you don't want to cry when you see him.
2006-09-07 09:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-07 09:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its healthy and yes itll work
2006-09-07 09:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by jon k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
You should also try using him as a punching bag. :)
2006-09-07 09:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋