I want my ex back but he says no, he loves sex to much to not have any and he wasn't getting any with me. He also lives 6 hours away and tells me he's open to ideas on how this would work, any help please
2006-09-07 02:18:58 · 13 answers · asked by unqione 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it didn't work the first time why would it work for the second?
2006-09-07 02:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already told you no, and expects you to do all the work to make a relationship work, plus tells you plain and simple he needs sex, then I'd say you already lucked out with him. Find someone who'll respect you and the fact that they won't get sex from you. You'll be happier in the long run.
2006-09-07 02:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I would leave him alone. You can do better then him. Just move on. Go out with friends get you mind off of him and enjoy yourself. It's sounds like he's not worth all the effort. Don't worry there is someone else out there for you that is a decent man and not a BOY that he is. Good Luck and get over it!
2006-09-07 02:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I thought you just said he loves sex too much to not have it and your not giving it up, AND you live 6 hours away..... so why bother?
2006-09-07 02:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its meant to be then you guys can work it out suggest getting hotel room halfway have him meet you if the drives to far have erotic phone sex with him to tempt him to *** closer to you...leave erotic phone messages to him surprise him once in awhile like showing up @ his door or to where hes at in nothing but a leather coat that goes to your knees and wear high heels...he wont want anyone but you...
2006-09-07 02:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound feesable to me. You dont want sex he does. He lives 6 hrs away.. Yikes. sounds like you will be chasing him.
2006-09-07 02:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he left because he was not getting sex, that does not say much for him,,, why would you want someone thats so focused on that and not on the realtionship.... find someone that will except the way that you are ,,,
2006-09-07 02:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well write a letter to him, let him know that you really like him and tell him that you are not ready to do anything with him. if he doesn't understand then forget him cuz there is more guys out there who will understand.you don't need him.
2006-09-07 02:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...it seems both of you really don't have feelings towards each other to be lovers....Life has so many other things to offer..Explore it and be happy..always be positive...
2006-09-07 02:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ajit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop chasing him around.Give your self some space,him too,just to think things over.Not too much though.I havent much advise to offer to you though,sorry...........
2006-09-07 02:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋