2006-09-07 02:15:02 · 22 answers · asked by arrinne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's into S&M. If you aren't comfortable with it, you need to talk to her.
2006-09-07 02:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not nuts she just gets off on the pain. Some people are into that. If she is then you are not bringing her pain but pleasure. If it bothers you then you need to talk to her about it. Maybe there is another way that she can get off. Mind you that not all woman get off like that and it is different then if she doesn't want it done.
2006-09-07 02:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is really a freak when it comes to sex and if that is what she wants then give it to her to satisfy her sexually. Your not hurting her. Evidently if she wants that she knows how it feels. If not ask her about some other things that you could do to her to fulfill that sexually desire since you are not feeling good about the whip!!! She is not nuts just freaky!!!
2006-09-07 02:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by mikdar001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to think that whipping her is whats giving her pleasure. The term is sexual masochism. You get pleasure if youre being hurt.
If its a mild case then its just probably normal. But if its getting out of hand talk to a phsyciatrist / physologist.
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2006-09-07 02:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol shes in to the whips n chains huh just tap her scream demands babe tye her up or use handcuffs and lightly tap her if shes not quick enough act like your a cop for example lol makes things exciting..
2006-09-07 02:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very old way to indulge in fierce love making.you will get loads of material on it.some males also indulge in beating their wives before sex,or biting them hard while doin sex.they are actually arousing wild animal in them which is a very fierce .attimes it is when they want their mate to be tamed down and surrender ,as they want to have their way in sex.your wife wants you to dominate her while sex and take lead , she jus wants to hand over all control over her to you . dont indulge in ,if you don like ,talk to her
2006-09-07 02:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by preetiashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes it, she's probably a masochist; they thrive on pain. do a little research on the topic, because from the sound of the question, you're neither dominating nor sadistic, maybe you two could find a common ground.
Some keywords:
Sadism
Masochism
Master/Slave play.
BDSM
2006-09-07 02:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your'l want different things from life at the present moment.
She just wants to have fun and experiment while you dont find it amusing.Its a phase....
2006-09-07 02:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is not pain and submissio, if you are not then you may have a hard time with it BUT I bet it turns her on, be cautious because you obviously do not know about her enough, if you can't give her this and she needs it she will find it else where
2006-09-07 02:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not beating, its domineering, she likes being taken charge of, its just a kinky way of turning her on. Kinda like being blindfolded...
2006-09-07 02:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are fulfilling one of her fantasies!Most women feel the need to submit to a man,others like to be forced into doing this.It gets (using the whip)her more aroused to have to submit.Well,something like that.....................
2006-09-07 02:20:39 · answer #11 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋