Two of these three gfs are living at the same city am living and the other two are studying at the city far away am leaving.Since I broke up with my first gf (2years ago), I felt so lonely and somehow betrayed. For this I had to move here and there to look for some one to cover the gap. I landed to these girls during this period. Each of them believes she is the only one to me.
Its my plan to get married within the coming two years ( to only one woman). Since my break out with my former gf, I have seen women like "PERSONS NOT TO TRUST IN LIFE ANY MORE". I surely dont like to move around with each woman who comes accross me, I just do as a revenge to women for what my former gf did to me.
Not only that, It is just last weekend I landed to the prostitute at the club and made love with her too (with condom).I felt so bad after that act.
(1)What should I do to come out of this habit?
(2)How can I know the woman who truly loves me?
(3)How do you know when your girl start cheat
2006-09-07 02:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by imma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take up duck hunting... you seem to have the basics down already.
2006-09-07 02:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I don't know if you'll ever find out which one of these women truly care about you.
I don't know why you're looking for warning signs that your woman is cheating when you're the one giving a little of yourself to basically anything with a skirt.
What you need is to be alone for a while to get over what happened with your ex girlfriend. Alone doesn't mean lonely, try spending time with friends and family, get a hobby, travel, whatever just stay busy.
To let these women down easy, explain to them what has happened to you in the past and that you need some time to yourself to figure things out. Please PLEASE do not mention the fact that you have other women on the side for that you had intercourse with a prostitute, PLEASE.
This is the best I can do - It's all up to you now - You know what's best for you and the women involved in this mess.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-07 09:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by piteous_wight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention, because what I am about to say is very true. Nobody gets away with things like that. There is always a power above all of us no matter what your religion is. Remember that whatever you do either bad or good you receive back multiplied by three. People like you end up insane most of the times... and I am not just saying that to scare you. This is a warning and I have personally witnessed it-- because of my position/job--- repeatedly. If one woman has hurt you, you have no right to hurt others, since their lives or souls are not yours to play with. Your sins --as is true for all people -- will pass and torture your kids and grandchildren for seven generations. Beware of your actions and start thinking! She, who hurt you, will also get what she deserves, but it is not you who will decide or act.
2006-09-07 10:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, you're asking the wrong questions! Here's what you should find the answers to first, before you consider asking the questions above:
1. WHAT are you THINKING about getting married when you have so many issues with yourself to deal with first?
2. Are you capable of loving one woman?
3. (Forget worrying about girls cheating!) Why are you unable to be honest with women and string them along?
4. Why do you focus blame on others instead of looking within yourself? (1. You blame women for a "betrayal" by your girlfriend who YOU broke up with, and 2. You LIE to women and then expect them to be faithful and mushy in your hands! No point in trying to find fault with them, KNOW THYSELF!)
Don't get married until you resolve these issues and are someone worthy of marrying! Grow up first!
2006-09-07 09:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not getting revenge on your ex or women, your only hurting yourself. You have major issues. Its not about trusting women, can you trust yourself in a longterm relationship? Will you be faithful if you get married. You need to find a girl you cant absolutely live without. If you are dating 4 girls, then that's telling me you dont care for any of them enough to break it off with the others for her. None of them are right for you.
You actually may need to seek counseling.. to break these habits.
2006-09-07 09:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These other girls your dating don't deserve to be cheated on, or treated the way you are doing them, it was your ex that hurt you not the current girls!!! You will probably never feel like anyone can be faithful to you because you can't be faithful to anyone let alone yourself!! I feel bad that you can't come out of this clean, you have hurt yourself so bad, mentally. And these girls don't deserve to be in the dark about your true intentions!!
2006-09-07 09:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you, some sort of love and relationship addict?
You are lonely and betrayed??? What about three of the four girls you are bragging about? Aren't you betraying them?
Go see a shrink!
2006-09-07 09:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by GreenHornet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Grow up.
2. Grow up.
3. Grow up.
2006-09-07 09:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by troythom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need one for every day of the week! Geeze, rookie.... only 4 girls and a whore..... c'mon.... lets see you get some good 'ole fashion herpe-gonorea-syphilitis.... maybe some crabs for xtra flavor.... aim real big, you might just catch Aids!!!!! Congrats! Jack-off.
2006-09-07 09:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For d record..u r sick man!!!! juz bcos of a person, you r ruining others.seek help quick if not sooner or later you may contract HIV or STD.Take care.
For all your question..the answer lies in your heart and common sense!!
2006-09-07 09:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by ros 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋