First off, please take this matter seriously.
It all started 5 days ago. It was my first day of school, everythings fine off. Everythings fine.. until I go to sleep. My school use to be an unmixed school, so basically I hang out with boys and my mates (NO, im NOT gay, its just that our school wasn't mixed back then). For the past 5 days I've been having dreams about this girl in my class. Its been reoccurring for 5 days, over and over again, I daydream a few times about it, and even when im studying or playing a game, her picture still pops up in my head.
First off, im only 13, so im just recently starting high school. I cant stop thinking of her, no matter what I do. I've tried everything. Although I want to forget about her it seems my mind doesn't. I don't think I even have a chance with her, and im kind of a shy guy so I wont just go up and say hello etc, cause I would usually get nervous. What should I do?! I think someone asked her out recently, and im too shy to even talk to he
2006-09-07 02:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by IAnswerQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what to do, i've tried forgetting about her etc. But nothing seems to work, and im too shy to go up to her and ask, and I think she got asked out by someone, im not sure, and I know another guy likes her. I need a way to either get the courage to ask her out etc. Or to just forget about her.
2006-09-07 02:00:37 · update #1
Talk about WHAT... I cant find any subject to start. My school is still half co-education, so its either in the class with the other boy that likes her or between classes for like 10 seconds.
2006-09-07 02:05:22 · update #2
Why forget about her?? What you're experiencing is a major crush and that doesn't always go away easily. I would find some way to talk to her offer her help on a project or just walk by and say hi and see what she says (she'll probably say hi back) then introduce yourself. Or find something you know she likes and start up conversation that way. Women like men who are straight forward (but not cocky). Find your perfect opportunity to talk to her (it will come about).
You could also ask if she has an e-mail account, you could write her. You're young and at the right age to like girls, you just have to figure out a way to approach her that won't make you nervous and turn red!! It will work if you're confident about it, if you shy away too much she'll just think you're this big loser.
2006-09-07 02:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I am going to tell you like it is, You need to walk up to her and talk, because if she does shut you down for some reason, You had nothing to loose because you were not going to talk to her at all in the first place. I know big deal. But I know how you are I have been in that situation and the worst that can happen is she says no!!! big deal there are plenty of fish in the sea....
2006-09-07 09:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus on something else
2006-09-07 09:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow you heart, but i will tell you this. she will not be the last you look at like this.......and thats a fact!!
2006-09-07 09:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋