I dont even know exactly who taught me to do this, I just remember some of my peers were telling me how they were feeling when they were doing this at their bed rooms/toilets/bathrooms. When I was at teen age, I then tried once with a toilet soap, I felt orgasm ( i didnt know actually what was that , but I felt in a different state of mind and something came out of my penis). From that day, I used to do it at least once/twice a month) up to when I was at the University. I had my girlfried then ( at university) but sometime I had been masturbating when my gf is not around. I think she doesnt know what is going on me and I dont like her to know this. Sometimes I feel so shy after mastubarting.
(a)Is there any way that can help me quit this habit??? Please help me if you know any.
(b) For ladies:How will you know your boyfriend has been/is still mastubarting??
(c) Incase you know he is doing such a thing what will be your reaction??
(d) Any psychological affect
2006-09-07 00:42:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a) it's perfectly normal, everyone does it, you shouldn't feel quilty cause there's nothing wrong with you
b) we won't know unless he chooses to share that info with us
c) offer a "lending hand" :).
d) not any that I know of
2006-09-07 00:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your age by now? if you have doing it for 13 years and satrted at teen, u must probably mid 20's so at the height of curiousity of how the 'real' feels, well but the fact that you ask is a good point to discuss,
1. you can avoid such acts by avoiding yourself being exposed to any pornograpic materials and aslo avoid belign alone most of the times
2. engaged yourself to more energetic activites like sports and events that will enhace your mind from thinking away from such acts
3 keep thinking that what if you discover that your gf do masturbate as same as your, how u feel? (just a reverse phsychological question here)
4. yeah, it does have phychological effects cos u say that you feel terribly ashmed after all, u loose you own self respect,...
and if your asking about my personal opinion about discovedring my bf doing that act, well, i will help him keep out of it, cos it slaves and can produce worst situation if not controlled at all ,......hope this enlightend you man!
2006-09-07 00:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell no there is no cure. It's not something wrong! Do it as often as you like. and just between you and Me, I think you did it more than "From that day, I used to do it at least once/twice a month) up to when I was at the University." You knwo you did it once or twice a day!
2006-09-07 00:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get busy. sexual urges are just normal but guys can avoid it by setting their mind into other things in order to be busy and forget about having masturbation.
look for your interest likes sports or anything. let your body and mind be busy. masturbation is not a healthy habit my dear. most of the girls gets frustrated if ever they still discover that their bf are doing that nasty things.
continuing that could lead to pre marital sex.
who knows, now, you're sexing yourself, later, you are sexing somebody else already.
it's not good.
2006-09-07 00:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with masturbating.
a) Just stop doing it.
b) Masturbating in front of your partner is erotic.
c) No psychological effects.
2006-09-07 00:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is konown that masturbating u get a bad habit that goes away only when you don't want anymore to have sex or when u're "saturated" of sex. My advise is that you find youreself a grilfriend , have sex with her as many times u want. You should also try to ocupate youre time and try having activities that keep you concentrated in other things that sex.
2006-09-07 00:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by florin g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the reason for wanting to stop? Everyone does it. Nobody admits it. Trust me nobody would know if you had just had a good ****. It's all in the mind!! If you want to stop. Stop. But if you can't, subconsciously you don't want to, so don't. You are not hurting anyone. So enjoy!! (",)
2006-09-07 00:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by weeroppadc2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. It's not a habit you have to quit. It's normal and there's nothing wrong with it.
B. I ask him! lol But I know he is...
C. No adverse reaction since I expect it. I'd like to watch, but I respect his privacy.
D. noooooooo not at all.
Enjoy yourself! :)
2006-09-07 00:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm basically like you and for the longest i presumed babbies too, yet then someone confirmed me the mistakes of my strategies. contained in the unique submit, the mother killed her babbys, no longer babbies. I nevertheless use babbies at circumstances, yet i'm the Babby Mafia princess, so i'll interrupt out with it. Others... no longer a lot.
2016-11-25 02:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by akerley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) if you are watching porn, curb it a bit. Most masturbate from boredom...women too.
B) i dont know...and I dont mind...long he pleases me too.
C) no reaction...I do it when he's not available. Ha!
D) No, unless you really feel guilty about it.
2006-09-07 00:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋