A couple of years ago my sisters friend told my stepmum that I said **** that I didnt and my stepmum psyched out and kicked me out of the house and I wasnt alowed to see my sisters for months because of her lyes... But I thought I had let it go but my sisters boyfriend brought it up the other day and I was really teary that day so I was emotionally tired already and it just made me wonder can I trust my stepmum after that and how am I supposed to feel when she takes some-one elses word over some-one who is supposed to be your daughter?
2006-09-07 00:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't. She's really not stable. I mean if you say a bad word that's cause to chastise you not throw you out. I would tread lightly around that woman and tell her now that it's over that you have been punished and you accepted it, but you never said that word and it hurt you that she took some one's word over yours
2006-09-07 00:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with your stepmum and talk to her about it honestly. Explain to her that you didnt say what she thought you did and that you are a bit upset about the fact that she took someone elses word over yours. Everyone makes mistakes..even adults. Dont accuse or rant and rave..just talk to her quietly and honestly...you might be surprised.
2006-09-07 07:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Honey i know what you mean it's sad that those who we love and trust don't feel the same about us specially when we give them no reason not to.
They say you can forget but not necessary forgive, I think in a personal point of view that you should just let the past be , and let bygone be bygones.
But learn from this incident and don't let history repeat itself. At least now you know where you stand.
Good Luck
2006-09-07 07:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she kicked u out of the house for something so little as **** that?! i think something is worng there, i mean ok maybe its a bad word but that no reason to take such drastic actions, and in anycase you are innocent, your stepmom was wrong, she should have taken your word for it. and why didnt your sisters say somethin? do they know the truth? try telling them and see if your stepmom gets the msg
2006-09-07 07:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by srsuper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. If your story is true then your sisters are liars and you step-mum is a fool. Your sister's boyfriend have the have recieved the support of a liar and a fool. Please don't turn these events into a negative outlook on yourself. Better go find some real friends.
2006-09-07 07:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Bernstein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family sucks. Lots of families suck. Accept this fact, and realize you are better off AWAY from them. I hope for your sake you are old enough to leave. The sooner the better. You'll be amazed at how much happier life is when you're free from all the bitching.
2006-09-07 07:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The woman sounds pyscho. Keep your distance from her.
2006-09-07 07:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
psychotic stepmom!
2006-09-07 07:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋