I'm in love with a nice guy, I have told him that I like him. He is not ready for a relationship. We are both Christians and I think that he might be the man that God has for me but I don't know how he feels about me. I know there are lots of guys out there but I don't want any other guy. How can I tell How he feels about me without asking him? It's kind of awkward between us at the moment since we haven't had a chance to speak muchsince he told me he didn't want a relationship at the moment. What can I do to make it less awkward?
2006-09-07 00:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by lil 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, honey he said he didn't want a relationship at the moment so I wouldn't pressure him into that because it will end up biting you in the ole behind! What you need to do is be a Good friend let him know you are there for him. Let time do the work for you!If there is anything between you guys it will happen!
2006-09-07 00:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling someone you are not ready for a relationship should be a clue to them that they are not the right person. Your belief that God has nothing better to do than manipulate your interpersonal relationships is wishful thinking on your part. You, even with God's backing, can't push this guy into a relationship if he doesn't want one. Harsh though that is, you can either waste your time waiting for something that may never come or you can wisely get on with your life and accept the disappointment you feel but continue looking.
2006-09-07 07:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have already told him that u like him.& he said that he isnt ready for any relationship....that shows that he is not very keen.try being just frnds.that way u will be close to him & there wont be any awkwardness.if he cares for u then u will know in a couple of weeks time but if he is really not interested then u wont loose a frnd.
2006-09-07 07:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by rashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him, say hi, are you okay? I wish I didn't tell you and laugh it off. Then say, we're friends, right? If you are both pretty young - like under 24, this is kind of normal to not be ready.
2006-09-07 07:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god has someone else in mind for you. I know it's hard to believe because that person has not yet come in to view,but when he does,you won't want to trade him for the world..may be the guy you are in love with does like you back.tell him you need to know one way or the other if you are wasting your time,if you really can not speak to him write him a letter.good luck with it all.
2006-09-07 07:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by aussiejoeanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound harsh, but he was letting you know in a nice way that he wants to see other people. Move on girl. It'll hurt, but when that passes, you'll see you deserve someone who IS interested in you! He'll pursue you as well. That's how you know if it's for real.
2006-09-07 07:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, its better if u love a person who loves u also. there is no point in going after a guy who dont love u. so get a person who loves u. forget about this guy
2006-09-07 07:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anil K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that this guy doesnot want to take any commitiment , Call it Off girl
2006-09-07 07:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, he's told you need to move on.
Ask God and he will tell you need to move on too.
2006-09-07 07:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much..you said your part and now it is up to him
2006-09-07 07:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋