I visited my boyfriend who I haven't seen in 2 months and found condoms in his house.... This made me very suspicious and then he didn't want to have sex.
Must I believe him when he tells me that it isn't his but his friends that is living with him......
This is also very suspicious because this friend is married and the woman he is married to is "fixed" and can't get pregnant.
Must I leave or must I stay?
2006-09-07 00:16:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The condoms are probably his.
Whether you choose to leave or to stay is obviously your decision, but you have to ask yourself a few questions:
- Do you want to stay with someone you don't trust completely?
- Do you want to stay with someone who may step out on you from time to time?
- Do you want to stay with someone who will lie to your face rather than own up to his own actions?
If you can answer an honest "yes" to each of these questions, then you should consider staying with him. He may very well have other attributes which make overlooking his shortcomings palatable. Again, it's up to you.
Regardless of your decision, best of luck in your travels through life.
2006-09-07 00:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by DidacticRogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy the benefit of a doubt maybe they are his roomys im also married and fixed but still use condoms some people are just so certain they no longer want children that they use all thier resources! Just as my husband and i do! Go to your boyfriends put on a nice fragrance of perfume wear some sexy underclothing and a very nice but revealing shirt and a pair of loose fitting pants show him how much he wishes those condoms were his that way you could uses them together!!!!
2006-09-07 00:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are a sign that he's responsible, are you not into responsible guys? Trust your boyfriend, you haven't really presented any evidence to suggest otherwise. Can't trust him? Move on then.
2006-09-07 00:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys have condoms just in case. I sadly have had some that sit around forever. The dumb thing for him to say was to deny that they are his. If you can, check to see when they expire. They could be old. But yea, to deny that they were his, that was your tip off.
2006-09-07 00:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girlfriend stays gone for two months at a time its already over.
2006-09-07 00:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...if you stay, you are going to be very suspicious and unhappy. Is he worth it? I think great relationships are built on trust.
2006-09-07 00:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off safe sex is a very good idea, But if he don't want to have sex with you then something is really wrong!
2006-09-07 00:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by tory w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that i can't foresaw the future
so choose the best answer
(how to choose the best answer? Use your sense because it's not common to all)
2006-09-07 00:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by zonewall_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we do not play together we will not stay together,if they want more sexual partners that would be fine as long as they got me someone to play with also
2006-09-07 00:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, lets see..you havent seen him in 2 months & he says its his oommates but shwes been fixed? i think you know this answer.
2006-09-07 00:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋