I am a very bad husband. i have sex often with girls i pickup for 1 nit stand whenver i travel. i know it is wrong, but i still do it. i have got STDs. after my wife got pregnant, i have another 1 nit stand and got STD. now i am worry that i pass it to my wife. after my wife pregnacy, i wear condom when we have sex. But i am still very worry i pass it to her. I have stop fooling around for the pass 3 mths.. i wanted to stop this bad thing i have been doing. i am struggling.. lost, very sad about my behaviour.
2006-09-07 00:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by badboy2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't be so hard on yourself. It is not always easy to be male. Everyone makes mistakes big and small. What is most important t is for you not to judge yourself and do the right thing now.
Firstly STD need not be fatal. Be grateful it is not aids. You will however need constant outpatient treatment if further symptoms develop. Speak to your doctor as to how you can continue sex without endangering your wife.
After doing all this, ask yourself if it was worth it to sleep around so freely? If not, then maybe what has happened has some good in it. Speak to your wife about it if you feel she will understand, if not speak to a counsellor.
Don't linger with regrets. Do what you have to do then move on. You are about to have a new family member. Look forward to this. You are not a bad person, you are only human.
2006-09-09 21:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 10:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a bad husband got std also dont tell yr wife how can? But what if yr wife has std before you,did you think about that.(if you can fool around so can she !)
What done cannot be undone, continue with yr sex romp.no problem want,now doctors got miracle medicine .dont worry ok
2006-09-09 13:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor & get medication 1st. if u can't tell her yet, tell a good friend that won't betray u but who will be willing to keep u accountable, like, get him to call u when u are away & encourage u over the phone to refain yourself. when u are away, decline invite or don't go to nightlife area that make sex easily accessable. is easlier to stay away if your mind is occupied by other night activities, eg. go to the gym, watch a movie. stay in someone's house that have family & kids & u will inconvenience them if u come home late. eventually u may have to tell her. that the great step u can take to get out of this situation.
hope this is helpful. peace, man
2006-09-07 00:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consult a doctor and get the necessary treatment. meanwhile keep your wife safe, physically, medically and emotionally.
if have to break the news to her after the delivery, no point risking pre and post nantal blues.
stop all your notti activities before you get Aids . . . then you're worst off and no one to lose but you!
you're not alone but take it as it is and dont get worst whatever way!
you learnt an expensive lesson, handle it well and pay for it . . .and no more ?
2006-09-07 18:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Wife about it as she need to know and also ask her to go for a checkup to find out whether if the child gets infected.
2006-09-07 17:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by sugar_guy84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her as this std if you passed it to her can be passed to the baby during the labour process its not fair to the baby or your wife.If your foolin round on your wife mabey rexamine your marriage she would rather have a divorce then to pass on stds to her baby.
2006-09-07 04:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by cherdo2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'll have sex with her for you so you won't have to worry about passing on std to her
2006-09-08 22:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the very least you can do for your wife is to tell her, and bring her to the doctor.
2006-09-07 01:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by ash 7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
waa.. brader ah... no need to be worried...
we all are men... sure got play2 one maaah... but you like this oreadi ah, so a bit sad laah...
but nvm hor.. you go see doctor first... find the medicine ah.. then after that ah.. you seat down and talk with your wife... tell her what you did laaah...
sure got fight one laah.. but at least you noe you repent oreadi maaah... so tell her to start over new leave hor....
so brader.... i wish you all the best ah... anything hor, can ask me one....
2006-09-07 00:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by johnjohn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋