My boyfriend read an email he wasnt supposed to...in which i stated that "i would rather have the guy i was emailing rather than my boyfriend" ; i tried to explain to him that it was when i was mad at him and i didnt mean it....he's forgiven me but i feel guilty...i wanna make it up to him...any ideas? { no perverted ones please:P}
2006-09-07 00:06:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg dont kall me that, i called myself tht already....you cow...
2006-09-07 00:09:41 · update #1
I would honestly ask him if he really wants to be with you and the reason you are questioning is because of the things that you have done to him that you can't get over the guilt. Reassure that you DO want to be with him if that really what you want. The thing is I doubt that you really do because even if your mad at him that shouldn't mean that you wanna be with someone else. So if you ask me break up with him. And then prove to him that you don't want to be with anyone else. The fact of the matter is that by buying him things that's not going to do anything so really you need to let him know and sit down and actually carry on a conversation about the matter. O and your not a whore. The person above is just ignorant and can't understand that people make mistakes which is what you did. You live and you learned, hopefully you did learn and will watch what you say and delete the things that you write to people when your mad and counter act your thoughts if you can't delete everything like telling the other guy no I don't wanna be with you I was just mad probably would've helped a great deal. Good Luck and I hope everything works out OK!!
2006-09-07 00:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing the stupid things we do and say in anger and usually don't even realize it until it comes back to bite us in the butt. Let that be a lesson to all to learn to think before we act.
I have no idea how to make it up to him, maybe just by doing little things that will reassure him that you are sorry and do care for him. Usually it's the little things that matter most.
2006-09-07 00:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your conscience that is making you feel guilty as you most likely do want the guy you have been e-mailing. If he had forgiven you, then let it be and carry on. You try to make it up to him because your guilty feelings, you will just add fuel to an open flame if you choose not to blow it out. What do you want and who do you want???
2006-09-07 00:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch! Your going to have to work really hard to regain his trust. All you can do is try to be honest and sincere. There is actually nothing specific you can do to make everything all better, well obviously stay away from the other guys, but any thing else you might try is going to keep reminding him of the slight you already have against him.
2006-09-07 00:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy but I do have to say your bf is a wussy if he keeps on bringing this issue up. You could tell him how much you love him and give him a hug. Don't do it too many times because thats irritating.
2006-09-07 00:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jumpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,yes you have surely hurt him,i guess just give him sometime to get over it and dont get to this topic again and again with him,just leave it behind and move on.....tell him how much you love him and appreciate him for things that he does for you and most importantly support him,which relationship doesnt have arguments and fights,all do...its just that you need to support each other!!good luck!!
2006-09-07 00:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how you can make up for that maybe you need to break up since obviously you weren't feeling him
2006-09-07 00:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya!!listen gal.....first stop feelin' guilty.....second....try to give ur bf as much time as u can......give him small things he like....give him kisses (on his cheek) while he is upset.....or while u r talkin' n u feel that this can lead to a fight......simply give him a sweet smile.....n m sure he'll luv u more n more...
happy luv life....
2006-09-07 00:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by SnEHa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it with a beautiful greeting card
2006-09-07 00:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm just buy him a gift or say i love you and sorry to him....Face to face tell him
2006-09-07 00:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by windy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋