Iv liked a bloke for 9 months, and we stared talking properly 3 weeks ago. The first time we spoke we hit it off we left the club early grabed a pizza and went to his (after the club) we watched a film and talked til 7 the next morning (nothing else, ) i went home without his number but he lived on the next street to me. i had left my ring there so went back to get it a couple days later, then i asked him out for a drink, he said knock round but i didn't get chance, i saw him out again and straight away we were together and he asked why i never came round to go out!
We spent the day together in bed just watching films, but still no number!! He told me to knock round in the week, which i did but his ex was there so when i left i asked him for his number we arranged a date but he cudn't make it!
Last night i text him a funny joke and got a reply this morning of an apology for not texting back sooner!!
At the mo i have no idea if i should ask him out again or if he likes me!?!?!?!
2006-09-07 00:03:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out again!! You have nothing to lose. It sounds like he does like you and enjoys your company. Don't try and get to heavy to soon though or you may frighten him of. Start by being good friends with him and take it from there.xx
2006-09-07 00:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 19:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back and don't make yourself so available. If he really likes you, he'll make the effort.
You're the one doing all the work at the moment... so go out and do fun stuff and he'll either come to you or you might actually find someone who will make you feel a million dollars and you'll forget about this guy who's not treating you as well as you deserve!
2006-09-07 00:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm just see how it is going? Maybe he doesn't want to take it to seriously yet i mean its not like hes using you or anything because you haven't done anything together if you two were sleeping together it would be different. Try not to worry about it i'm sure it will work out in the end. If not it sounds like you have made a good friend out of it.
2006-09-07 00:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally need to chill out and just take it easy. If he liked you as much as you would like him to, I think he would be knocking round at yours. He has you knocking round at his whim, it seems! let him come to you, if he really likes you he would be the one doing all the "work".
In the meantime, keep being good company and lots of fun, no hurt in asking him out if you want to, but let him know when he ought to come round to pick you up.
NOTE: If his ex keeps hanging about, that's not really a good scene either. esp. if he cancels a date with you right after. Rather be safe than sorry.
2006-09-07 00:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue with him as a friend, until you are comfortable enough to talk to him frankly and you know that he's sincere with you!
No use wondering what's in his mind and second guessing or speculating on his feelings. When you can both be sincere and honest with each other, then you can become closer as a couple.
2006-09-07 00:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop analysing everything and just go with the flow and have fun, although keep your guard up a little in case it all goes pear shaped, simple as that.
2006-09-07 00:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why was his ex there in the first place?? You sure she IS an ex??
Id ask him straight out what the story is - lifes too short for playing games
2006-09-07 00:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i guess you just leave it at this,dont be pushy about things....give this relationship some time,try to be friends first and see where it leads you guys!!good luck!!
2006-09-07 00:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you as a friend but not as what you want...
My advice don't let you emotion overcome you and be just a friend....
2006-09-07 00:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋