well im kinda embarrassed to do anything with my gf when other people are around like her siblings...???

Question

they were tryin to get us to hold hands and stuff but we were kinda embarassed so what do i do? i think now she thinks i dont like her, its my first relationship and i dunno what to do. i am 13 so... any ideas?

Answer 1

Completely normal, kiddo. Try to get over the embarassment, though, because it's okay to hold hands with your girlfriend, even if there are other folks around. Just keep your mouth to yourself in public.

Answer 2

Lol, cute! You were probably embarassed cause they made a big thing of it! Don't worry, I wouldn't want to hold hands if they were telling me to! Its good that you don't want to make a big display in public. Those sort of things (not holding hands, that's fine in public! More like kissing) get you comments like "get a room"!

If she's mad with you, talk to her about it. Say, sorry I didn't hold your hand, they were making me really embarassed. Try to hold her hand more when you're not around other people. Sometimes girls can find it difficult to understand why boys don't like all that mushy stuff as much as them :)

Answer 3

hey listen if you don't want to don't. im 24 and i hate doing s hit in public with my girlfriend. its just they way im wired ya know. but your crazy young so you'll have lots of expeirences to grow from and most importantly learn from. i had a couple expirences in public view and i just felt uncomfortable but if the same thing happened behind closed doors i would have felt more than ok. like i said its just the way i am and u may be that way too. still your real young so just have fun, learn, becareful and if it really bothers you tell all these people to mind their business and tell your gf how you feel. ya just don't like that s hit. later small frie

Answer 4

Hold her hand!Bring the little kids some candy and a game.you'll be a big hit.