i met this girl a year ago, and liked her,didnt really know her but i felt attracted and ended up having it.i care for her but cant be with her or no one right now cauz i still love my ex and id try to get back with her if i could. i dont know the other girl well enough to love and i told her that, and my feelings changed towards her cauz of my remaining feelings towards my ex, but still the girl pressures me asking all these questions and says i hurt her bad, she wants to be in a relationship with me,but i feel like im not ready for anything, im so confused, i told her how i feel but she doesnt understand that i dont feel the same way about her as she does about me..i still feel something when i see her thou, she wants to confront me about everything and my past and is wanting to wait 4 me...
2006-09-06 23:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by dave m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex cheated on me thats why we broke up, and it hurt me real bad but i still keep thinking of her...i dont know what i want
2006-09-06 23:44:30 · update #1
We can't say I love this & that in the same time !
No one will believe you ; because one person can love once , each time !!
So ask your heart & go for it .
2006-09-06 23:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by citizen high 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud your honesty with your friend. Most guys don't give girls that much consideration. However, your friend is getting hurt as a result of this. She can't help how she feels, nor can you. The main question is will you be able to eventually get over your ex and proceed with some sort of relationship with this girl? If not, then it would be the honorable thing to let this girl go. It will hurt her, but at least you won't be stringing her along and cause her more pain down the road.
I advise you to not get involved with another girl until you resolve your feelings for the ex - one way or another. There's no reason to allow girls to get attached to you if you know you can't return their feelings eventually. I wish you luck (I've been there)!!
2006-09-07 06:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious is this relationship? Just be honest. You have a long time to commit to a relationship. If it' your ex you're feeling stick with her. Keep in mind that friends are hard to come by,REAL FRIENDS.You don't want to hurt the other girl's feelings, to get your point across sometimes you have to. If she understands cool, if she does'nt move on. Remember just because you are attracted to someone does'nt mean it's relationship material.
2006-09-07 06:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can create a new stable and fulfilling relationship without the same problems as before with your ex try it but otherwise try it with the new girl. And be very nice to her cause you basically exploited her if you go back to the ex
2006-09-07 06:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by shindaiwa21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing but discussing your feelings and telling her the truth!! You need to heal FIRST from your previous relationship. Give yourself time before jumping into something else.....
2006-09-07 06:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ppl can advice u wit wat u need to do but wat i can say it here is appreciate wat is happening in front of u and use the past as ur experience. u can use ur fault in ur past relationship to become ur experience in tis new relationship and make it better for both uof u. of coz u might not think so as u have say tat u stil have feeling wit ur ex but i think wat is more important to u now is ur future and not ur past. appreciate ur current relationship or u might end up nothing in the future. don look bak. u have a really nice gf who love u and u love her in front of u now. don choose backward instead u can move to the front with a new life and a new partner
2006-09-07 06:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends with her is all you can do i guess if you have already explained you love your ex then she should understand and go on about her life and leave you alone..
2006-09-07 06:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally found a reason to be GLAD i'm not a teenager anymore.
2006-09-07 06:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shutup whining you little *****. Girls don't like sensitive men, they like pig-headed brutes.
2006-09-07 06:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by homeandawayrules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing she will get the point
2006-09-07 06:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋