ok, i ad a bad past. av been flirtatious n all. didn stick to 1 guy. I REGRET IT. now i am building a relationship wid a guy who loves me n i likewise n we r facin probs cuz many still think am da
same. dey r against our relationship. but am so in2 this guy. don wanna let go.How can i regain my dignity n reputation? S.O.S
2006-09-06 23:07:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, just don't say anything about it, unless you think it will matter to him. If so, just level with him and tell him about it. Better you tell him than someone else. Lay it on the line and he will respect you for telling him the truth. Also, tell him that it is in the past because you never met anyone you wanted to be with like him, that might also please him. It is up to you. Good luck.
2006-09-06 23:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's nothing you can change about what others thought of you before. Now you just have to show that you're sincere and truly love him through your actions. Don't care about what others may tell him. If you really feel the need, then you would have to have a very open conversation with your guy. Make sure that he understands that you're not like before. =)
2006-09-06 23:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Monogamy is grossly overrated, but there you go
#2 Monogamy is a choice (for everyone, always)
#3 If you have made the choice to be monogamous do not keep it a secret from your friends or lovers
#4Tell the houndogs sniffing at your crotch to buzz off and find some new friends
QED
Oh, and DO NOT tell your one guy about your past. It is irrelevant and tell him will poison your relationship.
2006-09-06 23:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Grendle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gave yourself a reputation that has stuck to you.Its no use beating yourself up about it though,these things happen in life,we all make our beds,we all have to lie in them.We all make mistakes-it is called experience.Sometimes it can be a cold and unforgiving bed-at other times it can be a nice warm cozy bed--so this is your chance to get a nice cozy warm double bed-go on,you've earned it!!Oh,and just one other thing,try not to mess the bed covers up-for this guys sake huh?There's a good girl:-)
2006-09-06 23:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don,t have to prove anything to anybody ,let ya boy know you had a wild past,if he can accept it don't worry bout what anybody else says,cause anybody else aint with you ,sure it's gone get you down at times but you can sit there and do all that regretting or move on ,it's the past ,leave it there
2006-09-06 23:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone u know is tellin' him about your past u should b 100% honest and tell him how u feel differently about him, and that your not the same person u were in the past. If he can't accept this then it probably wouldn't have worked out anyway. Hopin' it do work out 4 ya girl.
2006-09-06 23:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget what everyone eles think it is all about u and him. If he doesnt have a problem and he trust you and you him then it will work. U dont have to prove your self to no body. If he can't accept you for u then bump him. U can tell those people that are all in your biz to stop hating and get a life. Thei own
2006-09-06 23:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by sheyjj 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi, forget the past.
I can't understand who is against your new relationship.
Is it ur old boyfrieds ? if so, explain to your new guy. Tell him that you have changed and you want him. If he is truly loving u, he will understand and nothing can be against your love.
all the best
2006-09-06 23:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Govinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. Look I have no problem with internet slang. I use it all the time, especially in IM. But dang, please don't make it hurt our heads to read your question. You shouldn't use so much slang on a message board (which is what YA is, in a question/answer format). Leave the text message slang for your IM's, texting, and personal emails please...
2006-09-06 23:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is important is the fact that your boyfriend trusts you. hold on and take care of that trust. don't break it. in time you would have proven yourself and all tongues would stop wagging. good luck !!
2006-09-06 23:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by babytalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋