Yes this sounds like a common question but please, I would really like some humble answers and simply saying have guts to talk to her isn't that easy. Anyway I really like someone I see often at the station, she gets on the same train in the morning and sometimes on the way back. I have a weird sixth sense where I just know she's really nice but would take it the wrong way if a strange guy tried 'to chat her up' which is what I don't want to do, she has certain qualities I can see which are so appealing (not just looks) but I don't know what to say and I don't want to blow it. Not even expecting a date, just some form of contact or to get to know her would be great. Any ideas would be helpful and I guess I will eventually go and talk to her but thought to ask before I did.
Thanks
2006-09-06 23:05:23 · 9 answers · asked by lone_ranger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A smile and a greeting will do for a start, depends on the response do it a couple of mornings until you feel ready to talk, the weather is a good start, or something like "I see we often take the same train" or whatever comes to mind maybe share the same seat on the train, introduce yourself and take it from there good luck
2006-09-06 23:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by emjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by just smiling and saying good morning. If you get the same train she will recognise you and know that you have noticed her. Just start off with this for a while and then one morn say something like what a lovely day or what an awful morning. If you take it slowly you wont scare her off. It doesnt matter that its ordinary small talk. You will know by her response to you if she is keen to take the conversation further and she may even do this herself. You could say on a friday, bye have a good weekend or on a mon ask if she had a good weekend. Always look happy and cheerful, people are drawn to warm personalities. Just remember to go by her cues, if she looks like she doesnt want to chat then dont push it, Good luck x
2006-09-06 23:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend one day you're late and that you overslept, so you come running and ask what is the time, you thought you were late, so she gives you the time. After a while you smile and say I've noticed we take the same train were are you headed? Be as polite as possible as you're talking, if she's friendly enough in the process you throw in 1 or 2 jokes and you ask her her name but introduce yourself with a handshake and the next day it will be easier to communicate to her because you know her name. REMEMBER, BE POLITE AND SMILE A L O T, ok not that much.
2006-09-07 03:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally i like smooth men, u know a man that is confident who isnt afraid of rejection. u can easily start off a conversation, like "u kno what time tis train comes" or simply "whas goin on with u?" i like that too, just something flattering but you always have to show confidence not arragance , but just show her u mean well. jus be real, and be yourself, u will know what to say once the mood kick in. just humble urself, remember it is the man who findest his wife, she will not be able to make that decision. so u let her know shes probably diggin u, and u dont even know it
2006-09-06 23:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW you really do like this girl, I would just start by asking her if she has got the time or something like that. And just start a conversation off, maybe shes waiting for you to say something to her.
2006-09-06 23:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should buy a cape and a balaclava and hide somewhere that you know she will walk past , and jump out shouting booooo!! she'll love that........ honestly try it.
Or just try the smiling eye contact etc etc if she does it back you'll find a way to talk to her.. I still reckon the jumping outy trick is your best option though
2006-09-06 23:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never find an answer to this question - you have nothing to loose and everything to gain so just go up to her and say something. What's the worst that can happen?
2006-09-06 23:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into conversation ,nice day, bad weather, boring journey anything to break the ice. then ask questions about her, where do you work, I have noticed you travel the same route as I do etc. faint heart never won fair lady.
2006-09-06 23:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk!
2006-09-06 23:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋