Alright there is this girl I have been chatting with for 3 straight years,she is one year older than me.We live in diffrent cities but that is about to change 'cause I have to move to the city where she lives because of my university and I really wanna impress her IOW make her sort of love me.
I don't know beans about romance or gaining a girl's heart.
Please tell me what I should do
2006-09-06 22:37:05 · 8 answers · asked by i_kind_of_rock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already have one thing in your favor .. you have been talking for 3 years and have a friendship together. When you are there, just be yourself.. tell her your feelings and see where it goes
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 22:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, dude, despite what impressions you've gotten from the movies, TV, magazines, romance books and crap like that, a real woman likes a real man who is:
responsible
honest
compassionate
listens
smart/educated
has a great drive for success
gentlemen (opens and closes doors, etc)
classy (not dirty, grungy, smelly or gross)
loves children and animals
is macho without being a pig
knows what he wants in life, is decisive, strong-willed
and more...
Be clean
smile a lot
give sweet compliments
keep good eye contact
don't be too touchy
open and close doors
don't move too fast with kisses, etc
RELAX and BE YOURSELF
keep a good conversation going
always ask Q's about her and listen to her answers
tell the truth (but don't be rude)
be kind and thoughtful of her needs and wants
don't be obsessive, possessive, controlling AT ALL
make her chase you a little bit so you won't appear desperate
be strong
I hope this helps a little.... good luck!
2006-09-07 05:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been chatting that long you probably know a lot about each other. So relax and be yourself. Ask her out to a movie and pizza and see how things go. It could be a continuation of the friendship you began on line, or just maybe it could be more!
2006-09-07 05:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not gonna happen. You can't make someone love you. You can cultivate a good healthy relationship and if that relationship grows into something more then that is great. Don't set yourself with some unattainable expectation or you will fall on your face. Relax and continue as normal.
2006-09-07 05:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just carry on doing what youre already doing, she likes you already so relax.
Start meeting in person and hanging out, dont force anything and if the chemistry is right things will just happen.
Confidence in yourself always impresses.
2006-09-07 05:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 3 years she should already no you if you have bein honest i think you should just be yourself if she didnt like you she wouldnt still be chatting with you 3 yrs on
2006-09-07 05:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're Michael Jacksons twin brother
2006-09-09 18:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be natural and be real and show your caring and loving ways when you are interacting with her
2006-09-07 05:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋