It's like one minute they want everything to do with you and then the next they can't be bothered, but then they might see you getting on well with another girl and they all interested again but still they don't want to be your girlfriend!!! What is this behaviour all about?
2006-09-06 22:00:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are not psychos. It's how girls act.
Girls want to "catch" a man. So if there is no "challenge" involved in getting you, they will not be interested. So when a girl seeks attention from you, you must not give it to them. At least for a good while. Then when you finally give attention to them, don't melt right away. Give them a little challenge! Give them a way to prove they are worthy of your attention (or love, or sex).
As for the second part, the single most sexy attribute a man can have in the eyes of a girl, is other girls. Unlike men, who usually prefer to date girls who are not in a relationship, girls want the popular boys. This is why adding a wedding ring can be a great way to attract girls.
The reasoning behind all this is simple. Boys have plenty of sperm and can spread it to many girls. But a girl can only get children with one man at a time. Thus the girls flock for the "best" man, the "breeding bull" (they may choose to have a different man provide for them). On the other hand, boys go for many women, but usually not women that is already taken, as that can result in violence.
It seems like you are one of the few lucky guys, who naturally attract women. If you feel that some girls act like attention-seeking psychos when you are with other girls, all you need is to act the right way, and you can have as many girls as you want.
2006-09-06 22:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not aware of their own desires. It's similar with boys, you know - now they say "I'm not sure if you're the one for me" then the next moment when you decide to get your own life, they start chasing you full throttle... and after the third time the same guy does it, you _know_ it's not going to last, but the still they try to step in when you move back...
Well, people who don't know what they want are a bother. Me, I prefer knowing my own mind - and sticking to it, until new information / people really make me reconsider and transfer my choice. NOT randomly. And never switching back and forth - if I give up wanting to be with a person, there is nothing that will persuade me to go back to him, and that's that.
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2014-08-31 21:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by hone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's plainly not knowing what she wants. Young girls are often like this, or mentally immature women.
Or she grew up with the idea she's a queen, pampered and flattered every step, so now she can't help being jealous of everything and everyone she's lost control of.
Sod this, mate, you can't hang around her trying to figure out what she wants when she herself doesn't know it. You'll just be wasting your time and wearing your nerves out, unless of course you're prepared to wait till she grows up.
2006-09-06 22:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Faith * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're human. That's the reason that some men qualify to be described in the same way.
2006-09-06 22:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by nontarzaniccaulkhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual politics, DON'T GO THERE, you'll only get more confused!
p.s. you'll get a big shock when you find out that ALL girls, yes thats right, ALL girls are the SAME, maybe not at 1st but just you wait and see!!
haha GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-06 22:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by xhoneybeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they seek their self validation thru other people's opinion, thus they are overly sensitive to any kind of rejection.. but when they take you for granted you are not important anymore to them.. try ignoring them again, and you're back on the list
2006-09-06 22:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it' when one women finds out that the guy is already taken ,a curiosity arises,women' greatest enemy is a woman herself...so feels if some girl has taken up the person from the market she feels he is worth it
2006-09-06 22:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by query quest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean, some girls? they whole damned breed are psycho's due to the raging of their hormones every five minutes... give them chocolate it's like prozac for women
2006-09-06 22:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋