It's been 2 months since we've broken up. We were together a little over a year ago. The thing is I am still in love with my boyfriend. I am really torn because I love him to pieces but at the same time, I know what needs to be done for us to work things out and of course it would take the commitment from both of us. I have weighed the pros & cons about him and our relationship and I am trying to see things in an objective light to be able to make a sound decision. We are both really hurt and he is sick of the bullshit I've put him through which I only have been doing to get back at him for hurting me which I understand. I know what I need to do and I want to take those necessary steps to work things out. I am just unsure as to it being worth it. Or if I should be moving on as I have been doing, or trying to do. Is it worth working things out with someone to re-build a relationship that has been destroyed or to just find someone new. I haven't talked to him in a week!
2006-09-06 21:57:03 · 13 answers · asked by pumkinpie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love isn't all roses and happy feelings. Sometimes you have to work at it. Moving on is the easy option. Slugging it out is the tough decision, and sometimes they're the most rewarding choices.
2006-09-06 22:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on and try to just remember the good times with him. And you have probably learned a lot and will handle your next relationship better for having gone through this. Good luck.
2006-09-07 04:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the situation if u really love him go ahead but only if u r 100% sure that it Will work this time otherwise let it go
2006-09-07 05:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by archa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if its this much work already and you dont seem to respect each other enough to not do things that hurt each other then its only going ot get worse. you both need to grow up.
2006-09-07 05:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a tuff one!!! i know how you feel being in love if you read my questions you will see im in a similar situation.....i love my bloke more than life its ok for people on here to say move on but i no you cant .....try what you said talk to him..if he is not interested just carry on as you have been doing as i know thats the hardest part...if this bloke loves you he will agree to give it another go sometimes you have to go threw bad to become stronger..good luck to you hunny xxxxxxx
2006-09-07 05:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by skinnyminniekitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,its not about moving on or staying back,its about love and life!!
do you guys still have love for each other?
do you both wanna work things out?
do you both wanna be together again?
well the point is you both have to be equally intersted in getting back,or else i suggest you move on!!
2006-09-07 05:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on its hard I'm trying to do it myself but it gotta be done been there before got back for the second time it just wasnt meant to be
2006-09-07 05:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with life and start something new instead of slipping around in old stuff.
2006-09-07 04:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on gurl....it just a matter of growing up,,...i know its hard for you because he maybe your comfort zone....but u need to realize that nothing is certain in this world...everything changes....if he cant fight your love..move on and let it go..ok..?...
i know learning to let go it's hard especially if u are just starting it,,,but just try......ok?
2006-09-07 05:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by miaka p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is you know what to do . you don't need reassurance. Bail out.
2006-09-07 05:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Elsalsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋