i m 19.my bf is 21.he wants to have sex with me.what shud i do?is it safe?is it fun?ve u experienced it?
2006-09-06 21:19:06 · 17 answers · asked by shemaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if your ready for sex and you really love your boyfriend then you should do it. I'm guessing that you don't and your not otherwise you wouldn't have started your question with my bf gone mad. So I wouldn't suggest it.
2006-09-06 21:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your 19 years old, think to yourself is this safe what if I end up with a kid and I have to get married. Is he the right person to be married to in the long run? will this hurt my chances to better myself later in life?
all these question you got to weigh yourself and sex is not a game
if you truely love your boyfriend with all your heart and I mean there is nothing you would not do for him then it is up to you
but if you met him a week or three ago if I were you I would say no maybe after a year then if still together that will give you more of an answer.
2006-09-07 04:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is being selfish and inconsiderate.
Tell him if that is all he wants he should go find some loose woman to shag.
If he is interested in getting married someday, let him hang around to see if he can become a human being who cares about others.
Without a marriage commitment you do not want the complications that sex will bring.
NO NO NO!!!
2006-09-07 04:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not matter of experiencing it, but more importantly is that something you want too share with him,and if your not sure then i say don't do it, if he really cares about you as a person and as your friend then he will be able to wait a Lil while longer till you feel that you are ready for that.
if you do feel that your ready then let it happen naturally,its always best when it's spontaneous and not something you plan and if your guys is worth his salt , then he will find a way to do something romantic for you and he will make sure it is a shared experience and not just a one sided deal.
other than that , just let your feelings for each other flow naturally.
OH and yeah --- he may not like it and you may not either --- but a simple reminder from some one who hates seeing people get hurt during a moment of great intimacy , wear protection -- please!!.
sex should be a wonderful loving experience not something your gonna fear and dread later ....!!
"just my opinion"
2006-09-07 04:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by lesdrake2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 19!!! hello do you want to be a teen parent and i guess it might be safe but theres still that chance of becomeing pregnant. Honestly dont do it its only lasts a minute but being a teen parent lasts your whole life unless your ready for that.
2006-09-07 04:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hai ..!
i suggest u to first read my above all our well wisher suggestions
and Now COme to My Point..
as Lemon said. jsut expalin the probelms with ur BF just Convence hime , definatly he convenced with ur words bcs he loves u , if he cant listen ur words jsut forget abotu tha tpersons,
if he really loves u and lieks u then he will contrl himslef , otherwise it wll be big probel inur life ,
Jsut thin about it and prepare hwo to talk with ur BF that s it
Take Care Bye
Baalu
2006-09-07 05:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Baalu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not until you're married. The man should have standards as such, but if he can't even respect you, then get rid of him. It's very difficult for a girl today to find anyone worthwhile.
2006-09-07 04:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ware protection you don't know where he has been or where it's been have him checked out to see if he has anything that could kill you like aids plus others herpies stayes with you all your life don't cave in if you don't want to men will try to make you feel bad for not going all the way if he loves you he will wait
2006-09-07 04:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make money with the same activities engaged in within a relationship.
2006-09-07 04:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is fun and so important to change your life. So, think it over.
2006-09-07 04:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋