i have a guy best friend and we're really very close to each other. The sistch here is that he's completely against the guy im falling for and wanted me to stay away from him the best way possible. I knew the guy bck then, we actually got into a relationship till we broke up. And seriously, he's really not that bad at all. I considered my best frnd as simply being protective and doesnt want me to get hurt. But lately, i was kinda wondrin' why is he reacting quite strange everytime another guy is involved with me again. i never heard him giving positive reactions to any guys involved with me and kept telling me " you better not fall in love, please, stop seeing guys, give excuses if they asks you out, coz.. if you fall for them, they might leave you and eventually get hurt. "... doesnt this sound a lil' strange?? I told him,thats way too impossible for me not to ever fall inlove.
but im not giving so much meaning to it coz he's got his GF, i dont wanna think he's actually into me.hmm?
2006-09-06 21:08:58 · 3 answers · asked by joan mae l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah..at the back of my head somethin's telling me that somehow he must have feelings for me as bein' more than friends. But i cant help but turn back from that feeling coz he's got his GF and all the while he kept telling me that he really is inlove with the girl... He's tryin' to tell me that theyre happy together and he really likes the feelin' of bein in love, but when asked whether i should date or not, his answer is a big DONT. Coz loving someone really hurts, that i should not trust on other guys coz they might cheat me... I find it quite inconsistent, he seem to contradict himself over that matter..
I really am wondrin'...
2006-09-07 19:20:08 · update #1
Girl he loves you and the reason he has a girlfriend is because he doesn't think you see him as more than a friend. Do you??? If you do you should tell him something. There's a reason he's your best friend. I'm guessing it's cuz he's an amazing person. You know you want him...Go get him. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-06 21:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to keep you single and as a spare just in case him and his GF don't work out.Don't wait on him.
2006-09-06 21:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try kissing him to test the waters. my bet is he's into you but doesn't think he is worthy. the timing may have never been right either.
2006-09-06 21:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by lowIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋