2006-09-06 20:10:50 · 18 answers · asked by anwen_chel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cos no matter how hard you try you end up falling in love and it always hurts! something you cannot control
2006-09-06 20:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by crispey_honey 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is the risk we have to take when we love a person. Since we are all human, we are bound to commit mistakes and hurt each other but then again its up to us if we are still open to love and lose than never to have loved at all....
C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves, Harcourt, Brace & World, Inc., 1960, p.169.
To love at all is to be venerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin or your selfishness. But in that casket--safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers...of love is Hell.
2006-09-06 20:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't need to fall in love, it just happens. It is one of life's mysteries that you and I need to work out (but won't)! Getting hurt only happens when growth tries to take place but we try to stop it because we are comfortable with the way things are. I know I know, this is bit deep! I hope the posting makes sense... Have fun!
2006-09-06 20:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the beginning of a relationship you don't know you will fall in love. When you fall in love you can't imagine anything bad happening in the relationship. I guess it's hope eternal.
2006-09-06 20:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone said, "rise in love" I suppose that means that love is a process and we can have control of what happens. We know how we feel and we make actions together in order to create this love. I guess that is healthy love. I suppose it i s an interdependent thing. But it can be difficult to maintain.
2006-09-06 20:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by manuel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'll never gt hurt if u love the person who loves u as much as u do to him cmon its so obvious guys if once fall in love they will never leave u even if u leave them
2006-09-06 20:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by reshav d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a need, it is a process... you can't choose not to fall in love because you can't stop it... hurting is also a process of growing up... these two you can't stop from happening....
2006-09-06 20:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u "fall" in love..."rise" in love and u will never be hurt
2006-09-06 20:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fallin inluv is part of our lives..
getting hurt makes us stronger & better individuals..
its through mistakes & failure that we learn
2006-09-06 21:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cus we are all humans, and love is the only way to keep us alive
2006-09-06 20:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋