what should I do to make her feel my love ?
2006-09-06 20:00:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
perhaps she waiting for you to tell .... her how much you missed her ...tell her nice things such as you look nice or i like your perfume or i loved your dinner tonight or take her out and compliment her how she looks just make her feel good ........Treat her like you did when you went out for that first date if you can still remember...all the best...
2006-09-06 20:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women when raised is to feel sex is dirty..and it's not.. and some men are not genital when in bed or really know how to take time and make love instead of climbing on and off and say how was it..talk to her and find out why...Honesty is the best thing between a husband and wife...they need to be best friends and talk to each other..I've been married for 15 yrs now and it is very good...
2006-09-07 03:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kind to her outside of the bedroom
for her to respond to you sexually in the bedroom once youre married! Try giving her a gentle massage and just lay with her and talk to her and hold her hand or caress her skin and kiss her sweetly all over. Talk to her and ask her what feels best to her. When she seems comfortable and responsive...she'll let you know she feels your love! Be a gentle husband and a gentle lover with her.
2006-09-07 03:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the ultimate expression of love. If your wife feels torment everytime you do it, it simply means she doesn't love you so let her go. It is hard to maintain a one way kind of giving love when you don't receive same way in return.
2006-09-07 03:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by hanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be that you aren't fulfilling her daily needs so she feels like the nightly needs are just something else she has to go thru. My advice is spend more time with her during the day doing the stuff she wants to so that when it comes time to do what you want to she will be a little bit more happier to do it.
2006-09-07 03:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Richard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but i don't think she likes you very much i had a problem with my fiance for a while i didn't want to have sex with him because he didn't do anything nice outside the bedroom try doing nice things for her being nicer to her don't push sex but when it comes time to have sex make it romantic or before you have sex ask her what she likes she will be more comfortable if you do something that she likes
2006-09-07 03:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by terri l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to romance her.
Go to dr.phil.com
He spoke about this yesterday.
He said for women the romance is,
helping with the children, bath, bedtime...
Doing the dishes sometimes,
and the laundry.
Things that will help lighten her load.
Also for me,
tell her that you love her,
tell her the things you love about her.
Make specials times that you can be alone, to talk,
hold hands, just be together.
2006-09-07 03:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you are doing something abusive to her it sounds like she has some kind of hang-up with sex. If so, there's not much you can do to help her with that. She needs professional help for a problem like that or you need to consider getting out of this marriage.
2006-09-07 03:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel the same way towards my significant other. i would prefer that he let me come to him and quit pressuring me to have sex all the time. i hate it. i hate feeling obligated or guilted into it. half the time i just close my eyes or just lay there. it doesnt help that my man is over 300 lbs. just try to leave her be and she'll come around. we have hormones too that run-a-muck certain times of the month.
2006-09-07 03:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a common problem with too much concerned females. Some one of this nature can explain.
2006-09-07 03:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by guptaskgupta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋