2006-09-06 19:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Even your moral say 'yes', you should not tell her.
I don't mean to hide and lie to her. But..acoording to my experience, you will ensure for a break up eventually if you told her. Of course, she will be gladful IN THE BEGINNING. Unfortunately, you have already planted a seed in her heart that you can not be trusted. Even she trust you, it won't be as much as before. In short, she will be changed.
When she treats you cold, you will ask her 'why you treat me not as good as before?'. Then, she will say 'No, it is not. I am still same as before'. I AM SURE you will keep asking same things more and finally ONE DAy she exploded! She will say 'You give me too much stress. You complain too much'. And this always lead her to have less feeling on you, less and less, and she has less respect on you .
Do you see the chain reaction?
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Path A ----> At last, if you really learned and won't cheat on her again. If you are mature enough to promise this and treat her good from now on. Then, DON't tell her. For you, her, and your relationship good.
Path B ----> But if you can't pass your moral, you can tell her about this. I will admire you because you are a good guy. But you will have to give her up and she will become your sweet memory when you think of her after you break up.
Which path do you want?
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2006-09-06 20:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that is a really $hitty thing to do. I hate to promote dishonesty, but there is often a difference between what is 'best' and what is 'right'. Now, IF I were you I'd tell her. This may very well ruin the relationship. That's a risk you would have to take if you told her. You messed up and it's only 'right' that you deal with the consequences. Now, it may be 'best' that you don't tell her since you've had your little epiphany and you two could go about your lives like it never happend. If she ever found out without you telling her, you'd be in deep $hit. You know that. Good luck with whatever route you take.
2006-09-07 02:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you love her which obviously you don't, you should tell her. if she dumps you, well...you sort of deserved it, know what i mean? if she doesn't dump you, she's stupid. most cheaters that cheat will always cheat again at some point, it's fact.
2006-09-07 02:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her but most likely she will kick you to the curb eventually she will find out better to hear it from you and not someone else
2006-09-07 02:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, if she is smart she will break up with you.
if you don't, it will always be between you, things will never be the same.
you cheating people make me sick
2006-09-07 02:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by itslate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wow man did u guyz like not talk to eachother for a long time or summthing?? well i guess tell but before make her swear and make her say i dont care wut u say im still ur gf!!
2006-09-07 02:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell her. And don't do it again. But tell her if you do do it again or if you want to do it again.
2006-09-07 02:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her takes a man to admit that he was wrong.... be prepared for some abuse ..... you screwed up big man...
2006-09-07 02:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Schmitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a idiot~! to say the least! oh yeah i cheated on my girl and it was a big mistake!~ duh! ok duh! just tell her and find someone eles becase she will not want you! jerk
2006-09-07 03:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-07 02:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋