I went to his house in the evening and like a jerk tapped on his window to get his attention, he was surfing porn and masterbating..i wish we could laugh about it but he is so angry and feels I was way out of line for tapping on his window, but I know if he were watching sponge bob he wouldn't think twice of it. How can I say I'm sorry I do feel really bad for violating his privacy and making him feel unsafe. I wish he were more comfortable with it.
2006-09-06 19:34:40 · 12 answers · asked by personal trainer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you didn't actually intend to violate his privacy, did you? I'll bet you were just trying to get his attention. It's natural for a guy to get embarrased - not only for getting caught (all of us have, just ask) but for the unspoken thing about not having been with someone at the time instead of fantasizing, or not saving it for you, etc. I'd suggest finding out what his interests are in the porn area and taking care of him real well - AND STOP TAPPING ON THE WINDOW (LOL)!
2006-09-06 19:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know that He is a Jerk (no PUN intended) for being angry with you- then show him ALL THESE responses to your question in YAHOO- inform him that if he fails to apologize for his unwarranted anger - you will be POSTING HIS NAME OVER THE INTERNET AS A MASTURBATOR & a poor performer when a partner is involved too ( just added the last part for grins)
did you happen to notice if he was looking @ women OR men ??
-do you not provide him with enough stimulation that HE Has to "CHEAT" with his thought -life??
2006-09-06 19:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Shuffleking Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think getting caught jerking off to sponge bob would be worse.
2006-09-08 08:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by soulburner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I walked in on someone once. I was just like, "ewww" and snuck back out again before he could see me. LOL.
But anyway, you shouldn't apologize. He's just angry because he's embarrassed. It's not your fault.
Options:
1. offer to join him next time
2. say you think it's a normal/okay thing to do
3. tell him if you think it's not okay... and prepare to dump him a week later when you catch him at it again.
4. buy him a video.
2006-09-06 19:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he would be more comfortable if you two mastubated together.Perhaps then he would overcome his inhibitions of doing it in front of you.
2006-09-06 19:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by James007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to close the curtains then he would not feel such an idiot
2006-09-06 19:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join his gang he will be releaved of guilt
2006-09-06 21:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rishi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to keep his curtains closed!
2006-09-06 19:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strip naked and let him masturbate to you!!
2006-09-06 19:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by biggoon04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋