2006-09-06 19:33:04 · 13 answers · asked by anita r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do whatever you can to bail him out. even if it means skipping some critical prenatal care. idiot.
2006-09-06 19:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he is in jail, theres a GOOD REASON he's there. Don't bail him out just because you miss him. Love DOES hurt but so does his crime(s) whatever it is why you put him in jail. Make him learn his lesson!
2006-09-08 21:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you put him in jail because of domestic violence...
first of all, you didnt put him there. he brought this all upon himself. his time in jail is a result of his own actions. you are not responsible for that.
so he can hurt you and then you rescue HIM?
thats ridiculous.
get away while you can.
take your unborn baby and run.
the emotions you are experiencing are a part of the cycle of abuse. cant you see what he has done to your mind?
You have to get some help and I suggest you contact a public agency to help you through this phase of your recovery from abuse. whether it was a one time thing or something worse and on-going.
in LA County the number is 211 from a land phone line. they might be able to direct you to an agency in your area.
Your local police department may have some info for you also.
I know you feel lonely... but trust me... you will thank yourself for enduring the loneliness so you can leave him forever.
(apologies if i jumped to a false assumption)
2006-09-06 19:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by anonymoususer987876 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you bail him out child protective service may take your baby away. stay away-it will get better every day if you are not around him-take him back and if he hurts you-you will be starting from step one. he is an addiction-go cold turkey-thats the best way to free yourself and protect your child
2006-09-09 15:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by 1leapinglizard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had a good reason to put him in jail. Don't be foolish and get him out to do it all over again. Stay away from him. Have ambition for yourself and baby.
2006-09-06 19:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends-what was your reason for initially putting him in jail? if he was hurting you physically or emotionally, then no. even if you miss him, think of what kind of father you want your child to have. if it is a financial concern, then can you get help from your family? good luck
2006-09-06 19:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by whiteplum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bail him out now you'll be doing it for the rest of your life. It's your decision
2006-09-06 19:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did u put him in jail for, if he was abusing him dont let him out even if you are preg, he might hurt the baby
2006-09-06 19:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't. you did it for a reason. so remember that reason. I know you miss him. but maybe you are better off with out him. save the money for your child.
2006-09-06 19:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by nicolea0329 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's what people get for sleeping around and getting knocked up.
2006-09-08 22:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Somechicknamednicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋