There's a girl i've been trying to date for the past 2 months now who has definetly been giving me mixed messages. She gave me her number, but every time I call her and ask her out, she says she's busy, and explains what it is she has to do. I'd always end the conversation with "call me if you want to do anything" and she would reply, "okay, you too." So next week rolls along and I call her again, and recieve the same answer. But she'd always talk to me with a regretful tone, as if she wanted to do something but couldn't.The only time I ever really see her is when I'm at work, but every time I try to talk to her she seems to ignore me. This could be in part to the fact that we both work there, and she doesn't want to start rumors with the coworkers (let me explain. We work different shifts in a local grocery store, and only part time. I am 17 and she is 16, so our job is not too important) but I'm still definetly confused. Is she playing hard to get, or impossible to get?
2006-09-06 19:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Valhalla2128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you've definitely made it obvious that you're interested, and if you're attempts are met everytime with failure then I would bet that she's not interested. If a girl is truly interested than she's going to give you SOMETHING back. The best way to find out? Stop calling her! If she's playing hard to get and she is in fact interested, than she will notice once you back off and she will come to you. Good luck!
2006-09-06 19:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop palying hard to get if you are interested in a girl you don't no if someone else is to so get your groove on pick up the phone, ask if she would like to go to a nice restrant and I don't mean McDonalds either! Find some pretty daiseys and pick them on the way to pick her up. Then later on you can go out for a drive some where real calm and talk under the stars and then take her home at the end of the night and ask her if it would be ok if you could call and make arangments to take her out again if you had a good time!
2016-03-27 01:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman myself, I would say that she is not interested. She may be intrigued by you, but I would say now is not the time to ask here out. Judging from personal experience, she probably will continue to play this game because the thinks you are a nice guy and does not want to hurt your feelings. Sometimes, girls in this situation will realize what a nice person the guy is and eventually go for him, but definitely not now. I would suggest finding a new girl and not wasting your time with her any more.
2006-09-06 19:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will suggest you give a break for a little time, stop calling her and watch if she will get back at you. If she does, then she is interested. Good luck.
2006-09-06 19:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to get and too nice to tell you. The tone you hear is regret for the discomfort she is causing, and she is too immature to tell you she is un-interested.
2006-09-06 19:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to get. I don't think she's interested - she may be a little but doesn't sound like she wants a boyf now.
2006-09-06 19:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋