my ex bf claimed he had someone for me. thought it was him not wanting to tell me. i havent spoken to him for two months when suddenly he im's me. i told him i didnt want anything to do with him. the next day someone im's me and says my ex bf gave him my sn. i dont know if its really my ex bf undercover or if not. he lied so much to me i dont think i can trust anything he says.(u may think thats a dumb idea but if done right it can work!) any advice?
2006-09-06 19:23:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him! It may be a way of him wiggling back into your life, or else maybe there is someone else that he just so happens to think you might like... either way it doesn't sound like a good situation. Just tell him that you're not interested in him or his friends and move on to find someone that deserves you! Good luck!
2006-09-06 19:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cal me crazy but how your Bf not have yellow flags about you avoiding him for two months? even if he liked you he'd definitely be informed about that!
It's so weird how much you sound like old me. I say give him[the boyfriend] a chance by ordering/asking him to meet you and your ex bf at the same place at the same time after making your ex-bf swear to be there! Then you can see his face, know if it's a person or an alias, and take it from there.
you don't have to get involved for that either so you won't be phased by it. Personally, I don't know any guys that would go through the trouble.
2006-09-06 19:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Psychia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to send you a picture of himself. But that's still no guarantee. I guess the only way to prove it's not your x is to meet him someplace in public. If he doesnt wish to agree to a meeting, then dont answer his im's. If he comes up with excuses for not meeting in person, then ask him to please NOT contact you. Good luck!
2006-09-06 19:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! Block him in your IM. You will have peace in your mind and heart. Then move on. There are so many fishes in the ocean.
2006-09-06 19:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by hanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd IM them, but treat everything that's said as if he's trying to set you up to be embarrassed!
2006-09-06 19:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a pickle thats all i can say. Why not just call him????
2006-09-06 19:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by ukfansc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be suspicious. what are his motives. you don't need his help to find someone.
2006-09-06 19:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there!! Why would your ex bf try to fix you up??? DUH!! I say DUMP THEM BOTH!! Time to move on!
2006-09-06 19:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by piowine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋