how do you find it the true love? can people stop loving their gf/bf all of a sudden with any reasons?? i was devastated and feeling miserable.
2006-09-06 19:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by happiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll know in both your heart and soul if it's real.The gf/bf bullshit isn't LOVE!!! It's practice!!
2006-09-06 19:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by piowine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can just stop loving someone. Either you never love that person completely or the love you had for someone slowly died. Its hard to find your true love but when you do, you just know and there is nothing anyone can tell you to describe how u know if you found your true love. I am sorry you feel devastated...hang in there. Things have a way of working out.
2006-09-06 19:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not generally all of a sudden. Either they aren't in love really to begin with, or they have been slowly falling out of love for a while. but love means that you weather the good with the bad, so to fall out of love would take a lot.
Look at it this way, it is better that you figured this guy/girl wasn't for you out now rather than later, when you would have been more emotionally involved or invested. Now you can pick up the pieces, and start healing yourself! You will be a better person for having gone through the experience of loving and losing. Good luck, and take care of yourself!
2006-09-06 19:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people do stop loving. It's sad but true. There are many reasons for it. Sometimes one just gets tired of the other in which case I doubt it was true love. As far as how you find it is concerned. I wish I could tell you but, I can't. Sorry
2006-09-06 19:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in true love, simply because it doesnt exist like what u see in hollywood and romance novels. people stop loving their bf/gf all of a sudden because the attraction they felt just wore out and their bf/gf just became "just another person". it is up to that "just another person" to change and spice up the relationship if he/she is still interested in the relationship.
2006-09-06 19:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time when people just gone trhough everthing they can together.that doesn't mean you still don't care about the person.that is why people find it hard to break things off they just don't know there is a time to leave with out problems. they love the other but not in a way to stay in a relationship.
2006-09-06 19:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by mike and shannon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone can stop loving another "all of a sudden", then there might not have been love in the first place. learn to let go, open your eyes and look around you. you deserve somebody better.
2006-09-06 19:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your true love will find each other. falling in and out of love is only easy when its not real. One can be in love while the other isnt.
2006-09-06 19:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop feeling bad emotions can't be turned on and off like a switch maybe this person wasn't the one for you. keep your head up someone will come along for you
2006-09-06 19:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by shere w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u marry young it is easy to fall out of love, u just have diffviews when u get older, its sad but it does happen
2006-09-06 19:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋