Or would losing your virginity to another virgin or person with only one past partner cross your mind? How much did you value your virginity? And why is it so hard to meet a woman...either they don't want a respectable man (too busy screwing losers) or they are married or taken...? I guess money is what brings the girls to the yard...cause it certainly isn't being yourself nowadays?
2006-09-06 19:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by gunslinger08 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Everyone starts out a virgin. I think it's nice if one partner knows what they are doing, however there is a certain sweetness to discovering things together.
As for the rest of your question, I didn't value my virginity enough. I'm not sure what you mean by a "respectable man", there are all kinds of women who wants all different kinds of men.
2006-09-06 19:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by BabyRN 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of it has something to do with social conditioning. In the old days when religion was in control waiting for marriage was a big thing, but after religion lost it's hold people have been doing what they want. Combine that with a few generations of no consequences, neither social or lawful, and you get a society that conditions people to believe that waiting for marriage or past the age of 15-16 is a bad thing.
I personally find no relevance or sense in being for or against losing your virginity while young. It shouldn't matter.
2006-09-06 19:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin and I would consider a person that has had multiple partners if I was really in love with him and believed he was really in love with me. However, I would prefer if the other person was a virgin too.
You sound like you have given up. Don't! As cliche or lame as this may sound, you just have to keep looking for the person that is right for you. I honestly believe you will find a woman out there who will love you for who you are regardless of your financial status. If being yourself isn't enough for a woman, she is not good enough for you. Just keep searching! Go out there, see new places and meet many new people. Good luck!
2006-09-06 19:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I lost my virginity to my ex-bf... he's a great person... I'm still good friends with him. I'm glad it was him and not some ASSHOLE! Lol. But yeah... It wasn't an issue on losing my virginity to a virgin, but when the time felt right for me. Not being pressured into and .... wanting it for myself. I was a virgin till i was 17 nearly 18... waited out that long cuz I didn't wanna catch any std's or hiv or whatever... better safe than sorry. It's probably hard for you to meet a woman cuz you don't look for the right woman... ur probly looking based on looks alone. MONEY isn't everything... I personally am dating my old neighbor who was sent to jail... he obviously had NO money when he got out... so he smartened up got a job, he was a great person inside and out... i went for HIM... due to his personality... he believed in me and was interested in my mind and NOT my body. (Yes i'm an attractive girl... but just the thought that he was with me for my mind was mm.... goood :) hehe... ) but yeah... not all woman are out for money sorry man.
2006-09-06 19:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these days valueing virginity does not rate very high. It is a great gift and if shared with someone you love the first time can be very special. too many people screw someone to loose thier virginity and may feel good for a short time but they loose the god given gift of virginity.
2006-09-06 19:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is as unique as the participants and can be good or bad...chances are if one has had some practice, it might go smoother. Then again 2 first timers would have the potential for more tolerance for inexperience. Do like I did, call on your bestmates mum.
2006-09-06 19:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's too much of a chance of catching a venereal disease or STD's or worse from someone who has multiple partners.
Why risk a lifetime of herpes or the chance that you get genital warts or crabs .
2006-09-06 19:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by ne11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virgins are duds in bed, it is bad enough if the woman is a virgin but if the man is, it shows he sexual issues and maywell be homosexual
2006-09-06 19:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
may be you were not on time for them, so find the good chance and don't wast it
2006-09-06 19:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by lovely life 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no they probably has some kind of dieases..be careful
2006-09-06 19:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by kitten loves her boo boo bear!! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋