This gurl has been chasing me for several months. I finally gave in and asked her out. We talked about getting together Thursday night. She said yes and I said I would call her the day before. I texted her and called her and she never returned my call today. Is she blowing me off? Why? I'll see her every week at church. What do you think?
2006-09-06 19:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she is blowing you off. She is trying to challenge you. Ask her whats going on the next time you talk with her. Games take two to play.
2006-09-06 19:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been the one chasing you, can you think of one good reason that she might be blowing you off? I can't. Perhaps something came up, or her phone is not working right.
If you said you'd text and call her, you did your part. I would expect you'll see her at the time you set for getting together. Like you said, you'll see her at church, so she has nowhere to hide if she's playing you. If you still have doubts, why not give her another call today?
2006-09-06 19:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are good she is. some women just want attention and once they get it, something clicks, they are over you. on the other hand something could have happened (family issue, work, food poisoning, you just don't know)
My advice: Don't call her again, don't text her. Just don't. Next time you see her just be nice, act as usual. If she doesn't say anything about not getting together, don't you either. Just be friendly and then ingore her for a while.
If you start pursuing her any more then you have you give her the power and you become weak and unattractive.
let her make the next move, you play it cool. if she does try to set up a time to hook up, be busy on the time she suggests and make her wait.
2006-09-06 19:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by guitaryogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it. Just call again. No big deal. If she's been after you for so long then I doubt it's a matter of her blowing you off. Something has either come up or she didn't get your message/phone call. Try again later tonight or tomorrow depending on both of your schedules.
2006-09-06 19:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 19:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very unusual (not to say rude) to not even return a call. As you say, you will see her at church and she knows that, which makes her behavior even less explicable. Text her again. If she doesn't reply, treat her coolly next time you see her.
2006-09-06 19:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something came up... wait until you see her at church and ask if she'd still like to go out, then make her call you. Good luck!
2006-09-06 19:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time.
If she hasn't reached you still, then maybe all she interested in was the chase.
I just think there's a good reason, like something got in the way or something.
2006-09-06 19:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by remy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy...woman and children can afford to be sloppy. Men cannot...
Wait until Sunday, and ask her how is she doing?
you GOT to play the game of cat-and mouse
Good luck
2006-09-06 19:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In fact you wrongly believe that she is interested in you. It can be possible that may be she is totally not interested in you and may be dont want to meet you again as she did once. So now try to find out new one.....
2006-09-06 19:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by pesific_boy_curious_2_no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋