2006-09-06 18:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by Gail F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You take it nice and slow and get to know each other. If he really likes you, he'll stick around, he'll be willing to wait. If not, you got your answer.
2006-09-06 18:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out if that's his only goal is to tell him straight out that sex ISN"T going to be happening, and see his reaction. If he pressures you, or threatens to dump you for someone else it's pretty easy to figure out what his motive is. While it's true that by and large most men are seeking sex , it certainly shouldn't be the only thing they want from you, or even the most important thing. Respect and caring for your feelings and wishes should be something you get from any guy you want to have hanging around - if he doesn't show that to you, you're better off without him.
Course, on a side note, it also depends a little on how old and mature a guy is....most guys don't really get this figured out until their early 20's, at least. Good luck.
2006-09-06 18:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Namon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make him wait for it. Signs that he only wants sex though would be if he asks you to come over late at night, or if he tries to make a move on you the first time you hang out with him. And watch out for those smooth talkers, too. Some of them are good.
2006-09-07 03:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him up front that you are reserving sex for when you get married. If he sticks around, then you know the guy is a keeper. If not, good deal and on to the next. Stick to your guns!
2006-09-06 18:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the basis of all male attraction is physical. so deep down, if he likes you, there will be that part of him that wants to sleep with you. if you test him, chances are he wil fail. instead, let him wait. see if he sticks around and still calls you. then when you feel ready and go for it. only then will you see if he still wants to be with you.
2006-09-06 18:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're taking a break from sex. See if he's still around in a week or so.
2006-09-06 18:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Milo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess, if he's alwasy taking advances, like alwsy making a flesh to flesh contact w/ u from the hands to any part of your body, if he suggest any 'sensual talks' to awaken your senses, and if he always find ways for both of you to be alone in a secluded room or place, isolated from anyone, then i guess, you can get those as 'hints' to what he wanted wiht you, be a lil smarter girl & take care, nobody can be used and abused, if wasnt allowed to....
2006-09-06 18:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever try to test any guy on this because you are a born loser at the end! Guys don't simply uses you to have sex!!!!
2006-09-06 18:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't have sex with him...build trust and a relationship built on other thing first for however long you feel needed, and and if that is important to him too, he'll stick around, if not, you know where his priorities where...
2006-09-06 18:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by los ollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just c where he touches u what he talks about bring up sex in a conversation and c what he says
2006-09-06 18:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋