Could she have a secret crush on me...she knows i have one on her.?

Question

There is someone at my work that I have become very good friends with and she know that I think she is very beautiful and enjoy spending time with her. Anytime I go to break or lunch she wants to go with me almost every time and we chat on Yahoo all the time, However she is married. She has told me that she wants to hang out more often outside of work but needs to make sure that her husband is okay with it. She has told me that she has a guy best friend who she can go out with and do things with whenver she wants and she has told me several times, that she has told her husband that this guy has absolutely no chance of being with her ever. She has never told me that she has told her husband that I have no chance..could be she is just being nice to me I dunno. I wonder if the reason why she hasn't told her husband that is because it might not be true. Phew!!! well now it's your turn to tell me what you think....that is if you can get through the whole thing.

can we just stick to answering the dang question...i didn't ask for advice on what to do....sheesh

Answer 1

From what I'm reading, it sounds like that she could be lusting after you. Perhaps she sees something in you that her husband is unable to fulfill for her.

Answer 2

You are just BARKING for trouble!!! She is married and, yes, there could be a real friendship in the works BUT human nature WILL take over and then the trouble begins.... There are SOOOOO many women out there, both intimately and friendship-wise.... Take my advice and don't go out with her...Sorry......

Answer 3

Dude - save yourself a great big headache and possible gunshot wounds: don't bone the married chicks.

Answer 4

Let's leave the married women alone. It's just not cool.