2006-09-06 18:05:56 · 10 answers · asked by dan r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i can tell u what to do but i can suggest a strategy to u to have clearer understanding.
it help to write things down, point form, write a lists of why u want to divorce & why u want to change job. write down all the pro & con of the marriage & the job. answer them systematical, point for point. its will give u a broader & organised line of thought to tackle your probelm.
hope this is useful, peace, man
2006-09-06 18:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know about divorcing and changing jobs, but it sounds like you need to live your life a little better mate. Forget about your problems for awhile. Pick your favourite song and sing it at the top of your voice. Run around in the rain. Do something a little bit crazy to make yourself laugh. I know it's hard, but try to put everything aside that's depressing you and focus on the good stuff. I know it's trite advice, but it's also true. You need to get out of your own head in order to see things more clearly.
2006-09-07 01:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all reach times in our lives when we just want to walk away and start over before you give up on things the way they are try to make other changes. find the root of the problem and fix it this probably will take help from a counselor maybe some marital counseling as well. if you just run now the problems may still exist i hope you try to fix things good luck
2006-09-07 01:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by arianna3at 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any competent therapist will tell you not to make any major decisions during a depression. Seek counseling and work out your options in therapy. You can recover.
Good luck and God bless you.
2006-09-07 01:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with your doctor, and have him recommend some therapy for you. You have way to much going on. We, as adults have a tendency not to rationalize and act on emotions. It kinda sounds like you are where a lot of us are today.
Good luck!!
Here's where I go when my woes overcome my thinking. Its awesome!!!
2006-09-07 01:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by easygoingfemale44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the regular doctor and get some some help. Anti depressants can work miracles, please believe me. Once you are rebalanced, your whole perspective might change and you'll find that you can deal with what you have already and even enjoy it too!
2006-09-07 01:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? all people go thru this.... you are NOT alone.....we feel trapped and in a box...... this is normal.... how you react may not be tho.... depression is a dangerous thing..... get help...... do NOT try to go thru this alone..... there are people depending on you and that alone can be overwhelming I know.... but think how over whelmed they would BE if something happened to you or you just up and left them.... so PLEASE get help, there is nothing to be ashamed of , we all need help at times....... God bless
2006-09-07 01:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting some help for yourself first then try to work on your marriage but make sure you let your spouse know your plans and what you're going thru. It can bring you all closer! Pray, pray, pray
2006-09-07 01:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by kweenameena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you act upon your wants then. Maybe you'd be less depressed if something actually happens.
2006-09-07 01:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur wife
2006-09-07 01:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋