Is it better when your in a realitionship where its secure and comforting but at times can be dull or boring. what way would you live your life socializing where you put your self out there to get hurt and used or safe loving realitionship, that needs more spotanantiy?
2006-09-06 17:23:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
partying and socializing takes a major toll on your mental and physical health......i learned that reading novels and quiet time means more happiness and peace......yeah, im a lifeless goof...
kinda sad, girls have pity.......
2006-09-06 17:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be in a loving and comfortable relationship and still have fun socializing at parties and clubs,etc.My husband and I used to do all those things together,but after a while it gets kind of old. We like to spend a lot of quality time together,,just him and I. It may seem boring to some,but just sitting next to each other watching a good comedy show or just simply talking can be just as much fun as going out. We still go out occasionally with friends,but we are comfortable enough and in love enough to be happy to just stay at home. So,if that's boring to some,I'd say that they don't really know what they are missing in a real and very loving relationship.
2006-09-07 00:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partying hasn't been "fun" to me since I was 21. It's just boring, the same old thing, new (kinda) faces. It's nice to get that longing look from a guy, but I prefer it much better from the man I get to go home with. We aren't spontaneous because we just aren't. That's in our personality. Spontaneity doesn't have anything to do with the relationship itself. If someone says it does, then they just aren't with the same person.
2006-09-07 00:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS EASIER TO TRY AND SPICE UP A SECURE AND COMFORTING RELATIONSHIP THAN IT IS TO MEND A BROKEN HEART!!!
I MAYBE PLAYING IT SAFE BUT ILL TAKE THE MOMENTS OF DULLNESS FOR A SAFE LOVING RELATIONSHIP LEAST U NO UR LOVED EVEN IF ITS BORING LOVE
ITS BETTER TO BE SAFE THEN SORRY
2006-09-07 00:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by realchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to be in a secure loving relationship with all the ups and downs.when you are feeling that your relationshship is at a stand still do something about it.
2006-09-07 00:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there and done that...... done it all..... and I mean all....... I like and love boring....... stable and comforting........ need a pick me up in a relationship ?? there are games and such....... God bless
2006-09-07 00:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋