why is it so shameful to ask questions about sex ... everybody has sex .. don't you think it is healthy to talk openly about it ... and what about Love and Lust .. you don't live long enough to make all the mistakes yourself .."prude's go away"
2006-09-06 17:23:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree, ppl should not feel ashamed to ask questions or talk about sex. Almost everyone has participated in some sexual act in their lifetime, and if everyone could share this experience everyone else could benefit from it. I think it is especially important to be able to ask questions like that in a public forum where you are anonymous and anyone can ask without being judged by someone face to face. It is idiotic to think that people should not ask their sex questions in a forum such as this. Really if you see SEX in the title or think the question may be about sex and you don't want to deal with that, don't click the link sugar!
2006-09-07 00:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a natural thing. Agreed. Your sexual relationship with your partner 'is' infact a part of the relationship. I agree. It comes down to this: (as I see it) Talking about sex isn't something that everyone is comfortable with. That's just something you/we will have to learn to accept. Some people are up for it, some people are very private/guarded about it. Nothing wrong with either route. Now if it comes to talking about sex on a forum like Yahoo answers when you're not directing the question at any one person in particular, but just whoever's interested; it changes things. If they don't want to answer then they don't have to ofcourse. It's the trolls on the net that ruin sex questions on the forum though. I normally won't touch them as they're normally being asked by someone who's horny and looking for a cheap thrill along with a list fo answerers who they want to send a private message to so they can 'cyber' with them later or some stupid $hit like that. So if the reason you're asking this is because you asked a sexual question and someone jumped your a$$ about it, I don't think it's because of 'you' asking the question. It was because there are so many other trolls on here asking questions similar to it. It sucks, but that's just how things are.
2006-09-06 17:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Everybody DOESN'T have sex. Secondly, most ppl have been brought up in a society where sex is considered a dirty thing. That's why, I think, some view it as shameful to talk about it. I believe it IS healthy to talk about it. And how will you ever know an answer to a question if you don't ask. My teacher used to tell me..."The only stupid question, is one you never asked." And lastly, you don't have to make all the mistakes yourself. Although, it's good for you to experience most things on your own, your blessed enough to be able to learn from others mistakes, before you have a chance to make them yourself.
2006-09-06 17:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by kdeegan2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you believe that everything should be discussed in a public forum?
Honest questions about sex are always welcome. "questions" regarding do Polish girls like this position are stupid.
BTW, not everybody has sex.
Love isn't always about sex, and sex is often unrelated to love.
What "mistakes" might you have missed by asking others about positions, or some of the other smut that pretends to be a question. Want sex advice - only have sex with someone that you've known for at least 1 year and have a monogamous relationship with them - always use protection - if you want to get creative, ask them what they think and not in the heat of the moment - if you accidently make a baby, use adoption if you can't raise the child in the same manner in which you were raised - don't do group sex, it dimishes the emotional value.
2006-09-06 17:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you, because if people talk about sex, they're educating others. There's no need to be shy when discussing sex topics.
2006-09-06 17:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a natural act; however, I find that the people who spend so much time here talking about it usually aren't getting as much as they say they are.
2006-09-06 17:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't kno why some people are afraid to talk about sex...it needs to be in conversations especially when you are trying to tell someone about the dangers/consequences or the positive things about it, and most importantly teens need to kno about it!!!! But I completely agree with you!!! I think that more things like that need to be discussed!!!
2006-09-06 17:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, its good to learn from experience and get some from other people. you pick up heaps of do's and dont's just by talking to your mates about sex and there experiences. i agree
2006-09-06 17:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by whitey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to be a taboo in society to talk about it because of all the protruding images of it in the media and else where. But i totally agree with you, i believe that people shouldn't be afraid to talk about it, rather it should be something we should talk about because it is going to happen and talking about it can only help to keep people protected from the viruses and diseases that are out there
2006-09-06 17:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lady G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are prudish about sex because they can't get laid right or at all
2006-09-06 17:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by britney 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋