My current husband is a 24/7 staunch alcoholic and has been very abusive in the last 3 months, last 2weeks my son called police and he goes to courst 12th sept. (irnoic sons bday) I want out. I am signed on to housing and DV funds for this state, patiently waitng an answer. I am exhausted, fighting is too much for me at 40 soemthing. Me an 2 boys plus idiot live in a single wide. I am going crazy cause I want him out. and a nw place to live. I live in fear every day. hair pulled, face hit 3+ X and one son seen all of this in a night. I am realy afraid and want out. I am almost ready to move back home. Vegas is my next choice--$$ are other reasons. I don't know what to do. spend my day worrieing. HELP
2006-09-06 17:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are shelters you can go to then get a restraing order against the jerk, then get a divorce. Nobody has the right to hit someone else
2006-09-06 17:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by old man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. There should be a local Womans shelter or one close by. They will take you and your sons in and help you get your life. Pick up the yellow pages as soon as you read this (or in the am) and there should be an abuse hotline. They should have the info you need. Realizing you need to get out is the first step now you just need to follow through. Its not an easy road to get your life back but its worth the struggle. Good Luck and Take Care.
PS: If moving back home is gonna gwt you away from this ***hole than do it and do it now. Giving up your pride is worth it if you and your sons are safe. I had to do the same thing. I called the sheriff and had 2 deputies guard me while I packed my things and left. They gave me and hour and I packed what I could left what I couldnt and moved in with family till I got on my feet. he will never completely change so never let him back in your life. You need to file for custody of your children and let them know there was abuse in thehome. Also the state may be able to offer some emergency assistance. Call your local Department of Human Services.
2006-09-07 00:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get him thrown out the house by the police. Then get a restraining order put against him. Once he's gone, move away. You better act quickly cause he may end up really hurting you. No one deserves that type of treatment from anyone.
2006-09-07 00:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by cinnimontwist518 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to put up with any of that. Nor do you have to live in fear. Contact a women's shelter, they will give you a place to stay and help you get resettled. If you don't know where to find a women's shelter, call the city hall and they will be able to tell you.
Good luck to you!
2006-09-07 00:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your local department of social services dept and ask them to give you the number to the nearest ABW shelter (Alternative for Battered Women)............Best wishes.......I also hope you are persuing all avenues that are available to you..............
2006-09-07 00:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need all the help u can get. i know u might not be a christian, but no harm & check this out:
http://eaandfaith.blogspot.com/2006/08/why-do-christian-husbands-abuse-their_21.html
peace, lady
2006-09-07 00:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women shelters, churches, go to them If you can prove that what you say is true and not just a hoax to get free money they will help you. I know.......................
2006-09-07 00:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm have you contacted your preacher??
2006-09-07 00:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋