Ok so me and this boy has been going out like alot!!! k. Well we have broke up for about a month now and I still have feelings for him and I know he still has feelings twords me. Well he has been giving me signs that he wants to go out with me again should I or should I not to see if this one is better.????......
2006-09-06 17:07:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok... well... why did you break up in the first place... If you are willing to get back with him and forget all the bad... why not. But never forget, and learn from your past. Take your time, don't rush into this! If he really is interested in YOU... he will wait until you feel comfortable and ready to go back to him. Dont just rejump into the relationship because you just broke up and you feel lonely. A lot of people make that mistake... and they end up breaking up again for the same dumb reasons. My advice, take your time... think for yourself!!! Before you get involved, make sure you feel comfident and comfortable with yourself. Until you feel good about yourself, you will never be sure about someone else because you might just use them to fill something missing.
2006-09-06 17:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Socrate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what happened is he was interested in another girl and he dumped you for a while to see if it would work out. Don't be a moron and go back to him. It will just happen again. When you are the right one, the guy wants to be with you every minute and doesn't leave for a month. Find feelings for yourself and your future and don't be an airhead that thinks you can only define yourself when you are with some loser guy. Sure, you can go out with him but just consider it a mercy date, sweetie. Find a man that loves you more than you love him and you will experience the most beautiful relationship of your life.
2006-09-07 00:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why you broke up really..I'm sure there was a good reason and if not..then go for it girl but think about it---why'd we break up in the first place because if it has to do with him then it's more than likely that he hasn't changed in a month
2006-09-07 00:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend,
it is nice to see that both of you have feelings towaeds each other.
you have not even mentioned why did you broke up. i don't think he has any bad habits.
there are very few people in this world that get so good friends and mates. you are a very lucky one.
there are always fights and clashes, but the bond of true love never breaks.
i should suggest you to be as one with him again as you both are so willing and miss each other very much..
true love never dies !
best wishes
ram
2006-09-07 00:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by radpaikar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do so, ask yourself . Do you really need to be in this kind of relationship? Off and on, on and off. Well if your answer is yes, then do it at your OWN risk. If you follow your heart, chances you might get hurt, but if you uses your head, chances you might have a good break. Everyone is vulnerable when it comes to love, all i can say, is true love will wait.
2006-09-07 00:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on why you broke up in the first place, if he dated someone in between. If not, maybe he just needed to see what he was missing, give it another shot if you still have feelings for him.
2006-09-07 00:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mike C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok if you and him want to see eachother again, but since you already broke up once, most likely, you're probably going to break up again, so be prepared for this to happen again, but if you go out with him again, just try not to fall in love with him, so this way when it happens again you'll be ready for it. but you never know, you might stay together this time, there is no guarrantee, but prepare yourself anyway, so you don't get hurt again. don't act like you realy like this guy, just be like what ever, this way he might want you more. you know what I mean?.
2006-09-07 00:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you have "feelings" for each other because you haven't met someone new. Go out and meet 3 other people, date them for a while, and see if your boyfriend is still so shining.
2006-09-07 00:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...how old are you??????
My advice is don't...cause you'll be like the abused housewife who never leaves....
a couple questions:
1) why did you break up in the first place?
2) what did you do to cause it?
3) what did he do to cause it?
4) will either of you do the same thing again if you were together?
remember....it take two for any relationship.....
2006-09-07 00:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Brian F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it who knows what could happen that was the case between my guy and me we broke up several different times but something always kept pushing us back together so we finally decided to stick with it this time and now I'm getting married to him next week!! so you never know unless you try
2006-09-07 00:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by kristan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋