Ex boyfriend has "new girlfriend" that he says isn't a serious relationship....However, he still wants to talk to me (ex-girlfriend) and I don't understand....if he REALLY liked this new girl then why does he still want to talk to me?? When I asked him if he had to choose between me and the new girl, who would he choose? HE said he was not going to choose. Any advice as to what to do?
2006-09-06 16:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by lucky*star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell his new girlfriend to keep a leash on her dog
2006-09-06 16:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still communicating with your ex - he's your ex.
He can't talk to you unless you let him - so it sounds like part of you wants to get back with him, and he's playing the new girlfriend to show you up.
You deserve better than this game playing loser. Delete his number from your cell and don't take calls from him. If he leaves a message, erase it before you listen to it.
2006-09-06 23:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay listen i was in the same position but my best friend told me to forget about him and dont even talk or see him
Because 2 me you both want to get back together but he likes this one girl but he dont know what 2 do now u know what i mean because i still like on of my ex bf but i dont talk to him or see him because it not good like that you know. i hope u just go wit my advice unless ur still really attracked to him
2006-09-06 23:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by loca16_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever ask a person to choose between u and some other things(person/things/hobby).
u're putting them in a position. let him make the choice himself. but u DUN tell him to make a choice. he will figure it out himself that sooner or later he have to make a choice between u two.
anyway he is already ur ex-boyfren. if things didnt work out between u 2 before, y shld it work out now that he is choosing between 2 girls?
move on girl!
2006-09-06 23:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and icecream at the same time. Don't give it to him so since he doesn't wants to choose, you choose for him and move on with your life. It will be his lost in the long run.
2006-09-06 23:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see what he's trying to do. He wants the best of both worlds if you know what I mean. Bottom line is, you need to cut him off before he hurts you even more.
2006-09-07 01:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by maliciouz intensionz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be keeping you around as a fall girl in case this one doesn't work out. He doesn't want to get his feelings hurt by this new chic.
2006-09-06 23:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing EX's are good for is awesome SEX. so just realize that he wants to be with someone else dont kid yourself, get someone to make him jealous, and make him remember why you were together... if thats what you want
2006-09-06 23:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by kockyguitarrockr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't entertain him even if he's not serious with his new girlfriend. Don't let him cheapen you by being an accessory.
2006-09-06 23:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by hooded_beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will say left him he is not human he is playing with ur feelings. it is hard to left ur love my dear but u have to do.coz u will hurt ur self while thing about him.go to him and say left other girl if he did ok no then left him for ever
2006-09-06 23:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Saybi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋