2006-09-06 16:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by UA Prider 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want to dump a girl without hurting her, sit down and ask "where do you see this relationship going?" maybe she'll agree with you, and say "no where" but shes going to take it harder if she thinks you guys are going places. If she agrees with you, say "me neither. maybe we should break up and see other people". but if she does still like you, say "well, ive really enjoyed our time together (no matter how crappy it's been), but i think my feelings have changes, and i think it would be best if we moved on and began to see other people". whatever you do, DONT lead her on. MY friend was in a loving relationship for 2 years, and recently all of the sudden her boyfriend dumped her with out warning. he said he had been pretending to love her for the last month. So do this immedeately. you may be tempted to do it on the phone or im her, but its best if you do it in person. your ex will probably still be sad, but be as nice as possible. anyway, good luck!
2006-09-06 16:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, unless she doesn't want to be with you either, there is no way. Just imagine how you'd like to be told, and do the opposite. J/k. Each girl is different. It's hard to know what way is best for her. My suggestion is to do it gently, at her place, and quickly.
You want to do it at her place in case she has a violent temper (which you may or may not have seen). Or if she breaks down and cries - a lot. You may want to leave before she's even close to home. If you're out, she might cause an unnecessary scene for all to see.
I'm kind of the atypical woman. I would want you to get in and get out, with a short succinct explanation, that made sense.
2006-09-06 23:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce another guy to her and let that guy the do the work... When she start liking that guy your job will be much easier....And why you need to dump the poor girl? Oh ya dun worry you will get dump by others pretty soon cos the table turns around!
2006-09-06 23:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if your a real man, you let her dump you. Let her save her feelings instead of being hurt. Believe me, most women are very sensitive and insecure with themselves.
So dude, take one for the team and let her dump you. Be a gentleman !
2006-09-06 23:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl is dumped, she will be hurt, no matter how careful you are. Sorry...
2006-09-06 23:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥SassyBlonde♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her she is a nice girl and that she should be with somebody that really cares about her and that you it not the right person for her because you will only hurt in the long run and that you is not a very nice person for her
2006-09-06 23:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by snacks992001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant unless this girl doesn't really like you;
but yo could try being nice like saying something like..
'Im sorry its just not working but id really like it if we could still be friends?'
or..
'i really like you but i feel we need to slow down && have a break'
good luck xx
2006-09-06 23:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its just you and you need to get in touch with yourself or make her hate you so then you wont mind getting away and she'll be happy your gone
2006-09-06 23:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by kockyguitarrockr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant unless she doesn't really like you.
2006-09-06 23:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by RoCk PrInCeSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋