I was dating my ex for 2 1/2 years and I left him because he hurt me emotionally and mentally terribly. While I was in the hospital he went out to the bar with other girls, had girls over and had stuff going with girls from his work. (And he ACCUSED me of cheating) Now, 9 months later I am getting ready to marry the love of my life and he can't leave me alone or let me be. He has been trying for 9 months to get me back and I want nothing to do with him. It's over, I moved on because I couldn't handle anymore from him. How do I get him to leave me alone?
2006-09-06 16:39:25 · 17 answers · asked by *KeLLe* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Funny our stories make us almost sound like we're living the same life. Only im not getting married. Havent even dated yet cuz he wont quit following me around. Anyway.........he can follow and watch all he wants, but he finally got the communication hint when I filed harassament and stalking charges on him and they stuck. Funny how jail sometimes wakes someone up. DOnt answer calls, text messages emails........... tell your friends not to either. I know thats hard because it puts them in the middle but it makes the point that your life does not include him anymore. Marry your new love and be happy. Youve been hurt enough by him already. dont feel bad for him. he deserves what hes getting. Youre not from texas by any chance are you? lol
2006-09-06 16:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by rwdycwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your boyfriend put you in the hospital. If the answer is yes well then you have your answer. No way would you be silly enough to go out with a moron like that would you ? He is only accusing you of cheating to make himself feel better about what he has done to you. Call the police on him and an intervention order sounds like what he deserves. Tell him he had his chance and he blew it big time. Marry your true love and be very happy with someone who knows how to treat you right. Good Luck.
2006-09-06 16:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop harassing you get a restraining order against him or move far away as possible and do not let him know where you move to he could be a danger to you and your love of your life.
2006-09-06 16:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him block all communication with him and dont acknoledge him
dont show that what he does makes you mad or sad dont react to anyhting he does at all
pretend he doesnt exist
Good luck
jsut ocnsentrate on you new man
there is alot of ***** out there so just ignore the douche and get on with ur happy life and if he is a good guy dont let him go
2006-09-06 16:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Follower Of Christ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU may half to call the law on him. PLUS change your telephone number. IF he comes on the property get a restraint. YOU may half to temporally move. OR go stay with a out of city family member.(till married) then get a place where he is not.AND BLOCK his E-mails as well.
2006-09-06 16:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you know how to dial 9-1-1?
2006-09-06 16:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him completely. Do not answer the phone when he calls, do not respond to his e-mails, do not engage in him conversation in any way. If you respond in any way it will encourage him to keep trying.
2006-09-06 16:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
911 stalking
2006-09-06 16:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by Luckys Charm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a last resort, shoot him. but restraining orders, 911, and accusing him of stalking ar all good too.
2006-09-06 16:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2006-09-06 16:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋