someone called my man and told that over a year ago they saw me hugging on another man and that they'd also seen me arguing with this other man like we were in a relationship. It is not true and I think that someone in his family is doing this. should i try and find out who it is or just let it go. He was so pissed at me and now i am pissed at the thought of someone in his family telling lies. what to do?
2006-09-06 16:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should investigate! u're innocent here. but how u r gona go about doing the investigation is another problem.
it makes matters worst cause u tink it one of his family members telling lies about u.
but watever u do, dun ever give ur boifren a choice to choose to trust u or his family. that will make things go waaaaaay outta hand.
good luck ok. :)
2006-09-06 16:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is going to get all pissed off over something that may have occurred a year ago, and he has no proof of it being true, then perhaps he never trusted you in the first place.
2006-09-06 23:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The less attention you pay to this the better. You didn't do anything wrong, so you don't have anything to answer for. Your man can either believe you, or believe malicious gossip. If he chooses the gossip, then you have a problem.
2006-09-06 23:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth. do it once... if he does not believe you or keeps trying to prove you wrong then dump him... he does not trust you. lose trust and you lose everything. move on.
2006-09-06 23:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. what davebig2 said
2006-09-06 23:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not guilty wat the hell are you worried for
2006-09-06 23:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋