We've been together for four months and because of school I wouldn't be able to go until next summer. Until then we're doing the long distance thing. (He's 10 hours away)
2006-09-06 16:22:37 · 22 answers · asked by SweetnSour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've already discussed it and he thinks its a good idea.
2006-09-06 16:25:09 · update #1
just to clarify I was going to WAIT to make the move until I finish school. The only reason he moved out of state was because he got accepted to law school (this was before we got together). If I moved i was planning on attending a school closer to him to get another degree.
2006-09-06 16:29:19 · update #2
If it's meant to be, he'll wait for you next summer. Go with the long distance for now. With school, work and a busy schedule, it'll go fast. 4 months is really not along time to make a move like that. Chill out and take your time.
2006-09-06 16:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the long distance thing out and see how it goes, if it goes well only you can decide if you want to move. I have known a lot of couples who have followed the other to another city and broken up shortly after. You guys have only been together 4 months, you might need more time to decide what you really want to do.
2006-09-06 23:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by suzjm98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think four months is not enough to start thinking about a long distance relationship, maybe if it was your highschool sweetheart who you have been in love with for like 3 years, but I mean, you can give it a try, but I personally don't think four months is enough time to leave everything and move to another city, plus I have a friend who was going to do that with her boyfriend and realized what a scum he was before going through with it
2006-09-06 23:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by vespertine•[Øblivion] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult question to answer. There is so much I don't know about your relationship.
If it is an honest and open relationship and you feel he is the one, then you may consider going.
I suggest you both speak very seriously about this - what your plans are, your relationship, where it is, where you'd like it to go, etc.
I also suggest you speak to others about it. Openly and honestly. Good Luck to you in whatever you decide.
2006-09-06 23:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - have hI'm follow you -if he really gives a sh-t- a wise woman once said "never run after a guy, unless you want to be hit by a train" -still not exactly sure what that means-but I'm sure it's not a good thing! That has always been my motto in life-and im not disappointed- w/ it-good luck-love is hard
2006-09-06 23:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, i would have to say no, i would not go. I would continue with my school. You have to make the best decesion for you. Just think about it long and hard before doing something you may regret later. Good luck.
2006-09-06 23:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by BabygirlSr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! there is no commitment yet. only if you were married should you go, then it would be a mutual decision. this will be a wonderful test of the strength of your relationship. what would you feel like if you move and then a breakup occured, that potential is always there when there is no commitment. NO!!!
2006-09-06 23:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by riosmoving 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ove had a LONG DIST rela.. 6 hours apart. we could EMAIL/ INSTANT MI eachother. With todays technology, its poss to hav a LONG dis REAL. But, when you do acept one, you have to accept the poss of its POSSIBLE mishaps!. SAme as a real relationship, but you have to have lil bit more faith with these. me and her, were good for eachother, she didnt cheat on me. We just didnt wpork after a few years.
2006-09-06 23:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by eastcoastxxi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. Long distance relationships do not work. Find a boy closer to you.
2006-09-06 23:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask your self is givoing up your family for some one you may love
if you do go make sure you can support your self if he should ever leaves you there is nothing worst then being inerstate on you own and no way out
2006-09-06 23:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋