When I walk up to a girl im interested in what should I say?

Question

Im very shy around girls but when I do build enough courage to talk to them I have nothing to say what are good coversation starters? and do girls really compliments and what are some good compliments to tell them???

Answer 1

talk to her and get to know her better, then ask her out to a date and from there, continue. Say things like Hey, -----------, how are you? or havent seen you in a while. Good Luck with her

Answer 2

A compliment about a feature is always nice ie. Your eyes look amazing in this light, I love what you've done with your hair, you have the most amazing smile etc. Something along those lines. Try to stay clear of the body compliments, they tend to be cheap. Great t*ts, probably wont go down so well. How could a lady not be charmed by a well delivered compliment, even if it doesn't get you a date, it will make her day and she will remember you for it.

Answer 3

Every girl is different, so you have to learn through trial and error. If your not a smooth talker than you should be honest. Don't say a cheesy one liner!

Now this is how the game usually works. Keep your eyes open for that girl who keeps trying to make eye contact with you. If you notice that she is looking right back at you, then you have a good chance. If a girl isn't giving you the time of day, then you should not try to approach her. Because either she's not interested in you or she just hasn't noticed you yet (I'll get to that in a sec).

When you approach her (the girl who is making eye contact) say something honest about her. Compliments do work. For example, if you think to yourself wow she is gorgeous. Then tell her just that, say, "I have to say I think your gorgeous...(wait to see her smile and blush)..."My name is...." "What's yours?..." And just go from there.

Now for the girl who doesn't seem to notice you, you have to make yourself noticed. This type of girl is a lot more challenging and you really have to develop a good sense of timing. Don't act like a retarded guy by, trying to burp the ABC's or something. Instead you should wait for an opportune time. For example, You see her at the mall with her friends. Ask yourself do I know any of her friends? If you do then go over and say hi to your mutual friend. This can lead to an introduction to her. Now you've met her and she's met you. That opens up more opportunities to talk to her in the future. So next time you see her at a party, mall, parking lot, or wherever you can say hi to her. Say something like, "Hey _____, hi I'm ______ remember my friend _______ introduced us at the mall the other day. I have to be honest I think your beautiful and I was wondering if I could mabye give you a call sometime?"

Well I hope this stuff helps. I didn't want to write you a book. So, good luck.

Answer 4

Ma-an... You know, there's no such thing as a 'good conversation starter'. It doesn't only take words, it's more the body language you're using. It's HOW you say something, not WHAT you say. If you say it right, then even the most simple 'Hi' will work much better than "You look like my future ex-girlfriend" or "Are you a parking ticket? You got 'fine' written all over you". It's the whole 'game' that matters, not some cheesy pickup lines. Sense of humour, confidence, self-awareness... and the list is endless. But, if you don't want to believe me and still want some quick fix, go here:
http://www.pickuphelp.com/
Just don't blame me when you crash and burn after the lamely said line.

"I'd like to call you. What's your number?"
"It's in the phone book."
"But I don't know your name."
"That's in the phone book too."

Response of a girl after hearing a pickup line:
I like your approach, now let's see your departure.

Answer 5

Yeah, pick a feature. How about "Look, I'm not some weirdo or anything, I just happen to be attracted to you. Are you doing anything special tonight?" At least you'll find out if she's at all interested or not, and if she's not, it'll thicken your hide a little bit and make it easier the next time you risk rejection. As one of my erstwhile high school buddies used to say, "Heck, I ask 10 girls I like and chances are one of them will respond." He was quite the ladies' man.

Answer 6

im going to give you a trick i use so much and works like a charm...

Say one day i come up and say hi... i ask them some thing on the spot some random question...( i always notice what they are wearing that day)

Then the next time i talk to them i bring up what they were wearing and tell them they look nice in that type of clothing...GIRLS Love those type of compliments trust me...

they also liked being noticed and what they wear ... because they try hard to have a nice appearance and like it when guys appreciate them

Answer 7

talk about them. depends on your age. try what school do you go to, what are your favorite classes, do you play any sports. What do you do for fun. you could discusss current topics of interest like the crocodile hunter guy being dead, which is very sad. Ask about her family but nothing to personal or creepy. Just be yourself. If you are phony it will never work out.

Answer 8

Keep asking questions about life in general. Treat them like a person and not just a potential date.

As for compliments:
The compliments should vary from girl to girl if they are sincere.
Find something you like about her and TELL HER!

Answer 9

umm..... I think whatever attracts you to the woman physically except for boobs and butts is what you should work on every woman loves when they are complimented I would use somethin funnie yet sweet. thats always a good way to go! good luck

Answer 10

ya know, girls really dont like false compliments...how about just talking about something that interests you or something going on in your life that is exciting...