My younger (13, 14) cousins used to smoke pot...Once when I was there, and I promised them I wouldn't straight up got to their father, but if he asked me, I wasn't gonna lie to him...
He came to me a couple weeks ago, and asked me to tell him what I knew, so I did...
He did the hair follicle test, for 90 days, but they both came out negative (clean) for pot...
My problem is they smoked pot in late June...
How could they be clean already?
Now half my family hates me, and I'm trying to defend myself, and what I saw...
I DID NOT LIE, and my entire family thinks I did...
HELP!
Anything I can do?
2006-09-06 16:10:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not asking how to get my cousins "in trouble"...
I just wanna know how to get on my uncle's good side again...
No one in family trusts me anymore...
2006-09-06 16:31:11 · update #1
The only thing you can do in a situation like this is just state your reasoning and hope someone believes you. If nobody does then oh well... you'll just have to move on with out them. Tell them that look i know it looks like i lied but i did see them.... and if you dont believe that there is nothing i can do to make you change your mind then, and if you dont want to talk to me thats on you... at least you heard my part of the story. Hopefully by saying that they will realize that... hey maybe you were telling the truth. Defend what you believe even if there is nobody standing behind you to back you up.... if you stick with it long enough... people will realize that you are right.
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btw... we made a deal.
I give you 10 points if you give me 10 points...
you first:)
2006-09-06 19:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by bittenthedust 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is its own reward. You were very responsible to inform someone about your cousins' pot use, as that is something that has the potential to cause great harm to them individually and to your family as a whole. At this point, I think you've probably done all you can, so it's probably best to just leave the issue alone. Your family will come around eventually, and besides, I doubt they actually hate you. And if they do, shame on them.
And one more thing. Don't forget that you were asked to give any information you knew, you did not snitch. When someone asks a question like that, they should be prepared for any possible answer. Furthermore, it was he who ordered the tests, not you.
2006-09-06 23:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what is done is done...You can't do anything to fix it now. I would just wait and maybe try to video tape them doing it or take a picture of it. Otherwise they're not going to believe you.
I know that if you dye your hair then the hair test won't work. Maybe they thought you would speak to their father. So they dyed their hair before their dad caught them.
I had a friend do that and pass a test once. I didn't know that it would work. I thought the only way he was going to pass the test was to wax his head. Apparently, he knew what he was doing. I think he did it before.
2006-09-06 23:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the way you do that is that you set up your cuzins like tell them you want to smoke it to and then tell your family to meet u at that place but tell your friend to help you and then make them get caught i know u might not want to be a snich but its for ur cuzins own good!YOUR FRIEND:cristal Chris Brown
2006-09-06 23:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Chris Brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple...they drunk alot of Orange juice and water after smoking....the more liquid they drink the more they Pee..and that cleanses their system more....i can tell your not lieing...and if they had like 2 weeks before the test to pee in ..then thats why they came out negative...
2006-09-06 23:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Iceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could understand not lying. but i think you should have pleaded the 5th. this isn't your place. stop worrying about if they are already clean. start worrying about the friction you put on your family.....just my advice...
2006-09-06 23:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by rollieoolie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you did good your a cool person sorry about the family tho i no no one ever beleaves me in mine
2006-09-06 23:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by question men 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so and what an imagination about the pot...ok for get it take care of yourself
2006-09-06 23:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by lins 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it eventually they will get caught
2006-09-06 23:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is drink vinegar for a week and you will pass any drug test,
2006-09-06 23:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋